Frederick Owen Brock and His Wife Edith Maud Brock of Brocks Restaurant, Queen Street, Maidenhead, Berkshire - Childhood Sweethearts.

Sundial memorial to Frederick Owen and Edith Maud Brock, Braywick Cemetery Garden of Rest, Maidenhead Berkshire.

In loving memory of Frederick Owen Brock" who passed away Feb 8th 1962 and Edith Maud Brock on Christmas Day 1968.  Both born 1876."

Frederick Owen Brock was born in 1876 to John Brock, a builder, and his wife Elizabeth Cornell.  Frederick first appears on the 1881 Census aged 4 and living with his parents and siblings at The Firs, Felsted Common, Essex.  By 1891 Frederick had moved in with William Brock, a flour miller, and his wife Harriet, the parents of Edith Maud Brock at Brock's Mill Bobbingworth, Essex.  Frederick was an apprentice flour miller at the time. The Census return lists Frederick as William's nephew; however, I am unsure if this is accurate as I cannot link William as being John's brother. 

 

Brock's Mill
Bobbingworth, Essex.

On 26th December 1900, Frederick married Edith at the Congressional Church, Ongar, Essex.

In 1901 the newlyweds can be found living at 20 Park Street, St Pancras London.  Frederick is now a baker and confectioner.  1911 finds the family relocated to 20 Church Street, Kingston -on-Thames.  Frederick is still a baker and confectioner, but the family has since expanded to include Stanley Frederick aged 8, Muriel aged 7, and one-year-old Iris Doreen.

The Brock family moved to Maidenhead in 1925, purchasing a restaurant at 33 Queen Street and turning it into Brocks Restaurant, Bakery, and Confectionary.

Stanley Frederick Brock went into the hat making business and opened his own store at 130 High Street, Maidenhead, Berkshire, called Brock's Hat Shop

On the 1939 England and Wales Register, Frederick and Edith can be found living at 149 Grenfell Road, Maidenhead, along with their two children Iris Doreen, and Miriam, who was born in 1915 in Epsom, Surrey. Both are assisting their father in his confectionary and restaurant business. 

In 1940 Stanley's hat shop was broken into by two children who were evacuated to Maidenhead during the Second World War. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 29th May 1940:

"Maidenhead Juvenile Court

Wednesday before Mr. F. W. Street (in the chair), Mr. E. B. Norris and Mrs. K. Fraser.

Broke into Tow Shops.

Two nine-year-old boys evacuated from Shirely (Croydon) were charged with breaking and entering Brock's Hat Shop, 130, High-street, and stealing 19/-, and with breaking and entering Timothy Whites & Taylors, Ltd., chemist and hardware merchants, 78, High-street, and stealing 2½d. and a clasp knife.

Stanley Frederick Brock, proprietor of Brock's Hat Shop, 130, High-street, stated that on April 19th a 7.30 p.m. he locked the premises but the next morning he discovered they had been entered. A corner pane of glass from the skylight had been removed, and a piece of string was hanging from the framework of the skylight. He discovered 19/- was missing from the till.

***

The Chairman told the boys that the Bench was very interested in their future, and wanted to give them every chance. They would be sent to a remand home until arrangements were made for them to enter an establishment where they would receive special training."

In 1959 due to their advancing years, Frederick and Edith decided to sell the restaurant and bakery. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 4th December 1959:

"BROCKS IS SOLD

The sale of Brocks restaurant, bakery and confectionary business of 33 Queen St was confirmed this week by Mr. Frederick Brock, and Mr. L. Dudley Clifton who handled the sale.

The freehold premises, which run from 33 Queen St through to Park St, have been purchased for modernisation and redevelopment for an undisclosed sum.

Mr. Clifton said an announcement would be made shortly as to the name of the purchasing company and its plans for the property.

Mr. Brock, who is 83, and his son, Mr. Stanley Brock, will carry on the business well into the New Year. The business has been in the family for the past 35 years. Two daughters, Miss. Muriel and Miss. Miriam Brock are also associated with it. 

The original building was erected in the 1880s as a temperance hotel. In the early 1920s it became a restaurant and had two owners in less than two years before Mr. Brock bought it." 

Brock's Restuarant was extremely popular in the town and the news of its sale caused some outcry from the women of the town who loved to gather at Brock's and enjoy the gossip as well as the coffee and cakes. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 11th December 1959:

"WHERE TO GOSSIP?

With new stores opening, old stores putting up new shop fronts, and competition forcing even small shopkeepers to put a bright face to their premises, there has been quite a change in the town during the past 12 months.

But not everyone wants a change, and among them is a group of women who for years have gathered on Friday mornings at Brocks in Queen St to enjoy a gossip as much as the coffee and cakes.

Some of the older members of the group can look back through the 35 years to when Mr. Frederick Brock took over the restaurant, and for them the recently announced sale of the business looms as something of a calamity."

Frederick and Edith on their 60th 
Wedding Anniversary

On 26th December 1960, Frederick and Edith celebrated their 60th Wedding Anniversary. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 30th December 1960:

"They All Celebrated

Among the many letters and cards of congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Brock of 149 Grenfell Rd on their diamond wedding anniversary was a telegram from the Queen.

After Mr. and Mrs. Brock moved to Maidenhead and took over the restaurant in Queen St in 1925, the Duke of Edinburgh, who at that time went to school in Holyport, was a regular visitor and often left the shop with bagfulls of sweets or bars of chocolate, which was one of their specialities.

Mr. and Mrs. Brock were married 60 years ago on Boxing Day at the Congressional Church, Ongar, Essex, a week before he was to take over a confectionary business he had bought at Regent's Park. It was through getting to know his wife's family that Mr. Brock took up the career that was in later years to bring him international reputation and 600 awards in national open exhibitions for bread and confectionary.

HARK WORK

When they moved to Maidenhead after owning a similar business at Sutton, Kingston-on-Thames and Buckhurst Hill, Mr. and Mrs. Brock worked hard to establish the restaurant which took their name and which had been open for about 18 months.

'When we gave up the restaurant about a year ago we thought time would drag,' said Mr. Brock, 'but instead of that it has flown even quicker.'

Only a few friends and their son Stanley and his wife were with Mr. and Mrs. Brock to celebrate their anniversary on Boxing Day. They have three daughters and one son, four grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren, which gives Mrs. Brock plenty of scope for one of her interests - knitting.  Mr. Brock of course made the cake for the anniversary. He baked it before leaving the restaurant, and after saving it for several months, it was brought out for Stanley, who used to work with them, to complete the finishing touches and icing."

Frederick passed away on 8th February 1962 in Windsor Berkshire aged 85 His obituary in the Maidenhead Advertiser on 16th February 1962 was as follows:

"Mr. F. O. Brock

The death occurred of Mr. Frederick Owen Brock of Grenfell Lodge, Grenfell Road, on Thursday of last week. He was 85.

Mr. Brock founded the family business in Queen St 37 years ago. It extended to include a confectioner's before the business was closed in the 1960s.

Born in Rayne, Essex, he owned businesses in London, Buckhurst Hill, Kingston and Sutton before moving to Maidenhead in 1925 when he opened the restaurant. The Cafe soon became popular and many stage and film personalities including Evelyn Laye, Ivor Novello, Glora Swanson and Beatrice Lilley were among visitors.

When Queen Wilhelmina of Holland was staying at Stubbings during the war, she was a frequent visitor to the restaurant and Princess Marie Louise, Lord and Lady Mountbatten and the Prince of Siam were among other royal patrons. The business was extended to a catering service and many weddings, parties and civic functions were held there. During the war when they had to cater for up to three sittings a day of evacuees, stock became depleted. Staff was difficult to get and the restaurant never resumed on the scale of post-war days.

AWARDS

Mr. Brock won 600 awards in international exhibitions for bread and confectionary and also from the wedding and birthday cakes he has made. In recent years he looked after special cake orders and many of his ordered went to America.

Last year he and his wife celebrated their golden wedding anniversary. He is survived by his wife, a son and three daughters. Cremation took place at Reading on Tuesday."

Edith passed on 25th December 1968 in Maidenhead Berkshire aged 92. On 3rd January 1969 the Maidenhead Advertiser carried the following announcement:

"Deaths

Brock, Edith Maud - Widow of Frederick Owen at Grenfell Lodge, Maidenhead, on Christmas Day, aged 92 years. Adored mother of Stanley, Muriel, Iris, and Miriam. Cementation took place at Caversham December 31.

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Sisters Phoebe Eliza Carter and Annie Taylor, daughters of James Meeks of the Greyhound, King Street, Maidenhead, Berkshire

Monument to Phoebe Eliza Carter and Annie Taylor, All Saints Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In ever loving memory Phoebe Eliza Carter who died Jan 19th 1914 aged 40 years - The God of love shall be with you-

Also of Annie Taylor sister of the above who died Jan 27th 1919 aged 46 years - come unto me ye that are weary."

Phoebe Eliza Carter was born Phoebe Eliza Meeks on 10th July 1873 and Annie Taylor was born Annie Meeks in 1872 in Maidenhead Berkshire to James Meeks, a publican at the Greyhound Public House in King Street, Maidenhead, and his wife Eliza Esther Favell.

On the 1881 Census, 7-year-old Annie and 6-year-old Phoebe are living with their parents and their younger siblings Arthur, and Florence, at The Greyhound Public House in King Street.  1891 finds the sisters, now both barmaids still living at The Greyhound with their parents.

In 1894 Phoebe marries William Frederick Carter, a fly proprietor (horse and trap) from Wiltshire, in Henley, Oxfordshire.  Together they had nine children, William Frederick, Winifred, Ellen Margaret, Phoebe Elizabeth, Edith Mary, Constance Annie, Reginald James, Florence, and Kathleen.  In 1901 the family are living at 7 Wellington Road, but by 1911 they have moved to 93 King Street, visiting the family at that time was Phoebe's sister Florance Meeks. 

Sadly, Phoebe was to pass away from childbirth complications after the birth of Kathleen, aged just 40 years on 19th January 1914. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 28th January 1914:

"DEATH OF MRS. W. F. CARTER. Much sympathy is felt with Mr. W. F. Carter, fly proprietor, 93, King-street, in the great bereavement which he has sustained by the death of his wife, on the 19th inst., after a short illness. Mrs. Carter, who leaves a family of nine, was the youngest surviving daughter of the late Mr. James Meeks, of the " Greyhound," King-street, and was well-known and greatly respected in the town. She was 40 years of age. The funeral took place on Saturday, at All Saints', Boyne Hill, the officiating clergyman being the Vicar of St. Mary's (Rev. C. H. Nash). 

The mourners were :—The husband (Mr. W. F. Carter), Mr. Fred. Carter and Miss Winnie Carter (son and daughter), Mr. and Mrs. C. G. Taylor (brother-in-law and sister), Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Davis (Slough), Mr. R. Carter (brother-in-law), Miss C. Carter (sister-in-law), Mr. and Mrs. T. South, Mr. Rivers, Mr. and Mrs. H. Vaisey, Mr. Fred. West and Mrs. Selby. 

There was a large number of beautiful floral emblems, sent by the following :—With love and sympathy, from Reg, and Ivy Martin; with deepest sympathy. from Frank and Alice; a tribute of sincere sympathy. Mr. and Mrs. W. Croxford; with deepest sympathy, Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nash; with deepest sympathy, Mr. and Mrs. E. Harris (the Crescent) with heartfelt sympathy and in remembrance of long friendship. Mr. and Mrs. Dunnett; with deepest sympathy, from Clara Goodall; with loving sympathy. from nurse: with deepest sympathy, from Mr. and Mrs. R. Oakley; with deepest sympathy. "At rest," from Mrs. Pomroy and family, with deepest sympathy, from Mr. and Mrs. Gardner; a tribute of sincere sympathy from Mr. and Mrs. Harry Smith, Marlow; in loving memory of our dear sister, from Annie and Charles in loving remembrance of our dear Auntie, from nieces and nephews at Bisham; with deepest sympathy, from the Maidenhead Station Yard Cabmen; In loving memory of our dear Mum, from the Children; in ever loving memory of my dear wit... from Will; In loving memory of dear old Phoebe. from Tom and Ada; a tribute of sincere sympathy, from Mr. G. White and family; with deepest sympathy, from Mr. and Mrs. Higgins and family; with deepest sympathy, from Mrs. Watts and Daisy; and with deepest sympathy. from Mr. and Mrs. South and family; with deepest sympathy, from Mr. and Mrs. A. King, Greyhound Hotel; with deepest sympathy, from Albert, Arthur and Harry; with deepest sympathy, from Mr. and Mrs. Vaisey and family; with, deepest sympathy, from Dick and the Girls; with deep sympathy, from Mr. T. Butcher and family, of Twickenham. The funeral arrangements were carried out by Mr. G. Littleton, Norfolk Park." 

William Frederick Carter was to pass away in 1932 in Maidenhead Berkshire.

In 1895 Annie marries Charles George Taylor, a grocer, from Dover in Kent.

On the 1901 Census Charles and Annie are living at 3 South Road, Maidenhead.  Together they had seven children, Mildred Edith sadly died in infancy.  By 1911 The family and their six remaining children, Gladys, Edith, Hilda, William, Thomas, and Henry had moved to 40 Uxbridge Road, Hanwell, Middlesex, where Charles is now a sugar buyer for a jam making factory.  Sadly, Annie was to pass away 8 years later on 27th January 1919.  The Maidenhead advertiser reported on 5th February 1919:

"Mrs. Taylor, wife of Mr. C. G. Taylor, the Bull Inn Bisham, only surviving daughter of the late Mr. James Meeks (formerly of the Greyhound, King-street, Maidenhead), died on January 27th, aged 47, after a long and painful illness, The funeral took place at All Saints', Boyne Hill. The officiating clergyman was the Rev. J. F. S. Russell, and the mourners were:-

Mr. C. G. Taylor (husband), Misses. G.V., A.E. and H.A. Taylor (daughters), Masters W. C., T. J. and H.A. Taylor (sons), Mr. W. F. Carter and Miss W. Carter (brother-in-law and niece), Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Davis (Slough), Misses E. and K. Carter (Reading), Mr. and Mrs. Watts (Bisham), Mrs. Sharp (West Ealing).

Wreaths, etc, were send by the following:- 'In loving memory of our dear old friend Nance,' from Tom and Ada; 'With sincerest sympathy' from Bert and Olive; 'With deepest sympathy' from the members of 'The Bull' Slate Club; 'In loving memory of our dear Mum' from Dad and the Children; from Mr. and Mrs. Reed; from Mr. and Mrs. Heatley and Major; from L. E. Goldsmith; from 'Trot'; from Syd., Kate and Millie; from will and family; from A. and A. Dunnett; from C. White and Mabel; from A. and L. Taylor; from Mrs. Dormer; from Flo. and Charlie; from Ern. and Nell; from Mr. and Mrs. A. Higgins and family; from Mr. and Mrs. A. Neville. The funeral arrangements were carried out by Messrs. Sellman, of Marlow."

The Bull Inn, Marlow Road, Bisham, Berkshire.
c1896

Charles George Taylor was to pass away in January 1941 in Hillingdon, Uxbridge, Middlesex

Family Connections: James Meeks of the Greyhound, King Street, Maidenhead. (Father).

First World War Private Monument - Air Mechanic 1st Class Frederick George Bennett, Royal Air Force

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

Frederick George Bennett was born in Marlow Buckinghamshire in 1895 to Henry C Bennett, a paper maker in a paper mill and his wife Julia Joyce.

In 1901 Frederick can be found living with his parents and siblings at Temple Cottages, Bisham Berkshire. 1911 and Frederick is still living with his parents in Temple Cottages in Bisham.  His occupation in 1911 is listed as a house boy.

Sometime after the outbreak of World War I Frederick enlisted with the Royal Air force, becoming an Air Mechanic 1st Class. 

Unfortunately, I cannot find any further information about Frederick's war service or how he came to be injured.  Just before Frederick died of is wounds in Cliveden Military Hospital, he married Frances Dora Larter in the September of 1918.  Their time together was short as Frederick died on 21st November 1918 aged just 23 years.



King Street Tobacconist Thomas Dixon, Died from Cancer of the Face, and His Wife Kate Dixon

Monument to Thomas and Kate Dixon, All Saints Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In ever loving memory of Thomas the dearly beloved and devoted husband of Kate Dixon who entered into rest January 25th 1913 aged 47 years - his end was peace - May he be numbered with thy saints in glory everlasting -

Also

Kate Dixon who fell asleep February 7th 1955 aged 92 years."

Thomas Dixon was born in Dartford Kent in 1866 to Thomas Dixon, a foreman in a tanning works, and his wife Louisa Wren.

In 1871 Thomas aged 6 is living with his parents and grandmother Elizabeth Dixon in Dartford Kent.  By 1881 Thomas, now a carman apprentice, is living with his family at No 1 Tanyard Cottages in Dartford Kent. In 1890 Thomas married Kate Richards in Keynsham Gloucester.

Kate Dixon was born Kate Richards on 27th February 1862 in Clifton, Gloucester, to James Richards, an innkeeper, and his wife Elizabeth Stinchcombe. Kate first appears on the 1871 Census living with her father James, who is listed as a widow, however Elizabeth is alive and well living with another man as his wife, and two of her elder siblings at The Ship Inn, 18 Wade Street, Bristol, Gloucester.

The Ship Inn, 18 Wade Street, Bristol,
Gloucester

In 1881 Kate is now living in Soundwell, Bristol, Gloucester, with both her parents as Elizabeth appears to have returned to the family home. Kate's occupation at the time is listed as a dressmaker.

The 1891 Census finds the newly wed Thomas and Kate living at 35 Spring Vale in Dartford.  Thomas's occupation is listed as a currier.  A currier is a specialist in the leather processing industry. After the tanning process, the currier applies techniques of dressing, finishing and colouring to the tanned hide to make it strong, flexible and waterproof.  The 7th July 1894 sees the birth of their only surviving child, a son, Horace.

Sometime before 1901 Thomas, Kate and Horace move to 72 King Street, Maidenhead Berkshire where Thomas is now a tobacconist and sub-postmaster.  1911, two years before Thomas's death, he is now a retired tobacconist living with his wife Kate and 16-year-old son Horace at 24 St Mark's Road, Maidenhead.  Horace is now a clerk for a local brewery.

Sadly, Thomas was to pass away on 25th January 1913 at the age of 47 from cancer. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 29th January 1913:

"DEATH OF MR. THOS. DIXON. Many of our readers will bear with regret of the death of Mr. Thomas Dixon, of 21, Clare. road, Maidenhead, formerly sub-postmaster at the King-street post-office, where he also carried on the business of a tobacconist and newsagent for about sixteen years. He disposed of his business some three years ago. Mr. Dixon came to Maidenhead from Dartford, purchasing the King-street business from Mr. William Smith, a member of an old Maidenhead family, now a tradesman at Richmond. Mr. Dixon had been ill for about twelve months, suffering from cancer in the face. Operations at King Edward VII. Hospital, Windsor, were successful only in prolonging life. He was an in-patient for two months. and everything that surgical and medical skill could suggest was resorted to; the disease, however, was malignant, and it was soon too apparent that recovery was hopeless. Mr. Dixon passed away on Saturday last at the early ago of 47 years. Much sympathy is felt with Mrs. Dixon and her son, who have sustained an irreparable loss. The funeral will take place to-day (Wednesday), at 2.15, at All Saints', Boyne Hill."

Kate continued to live at 21 Clare Road and can be found there on the 1939 England and Wales Register. Kate was to pass away on 7th February 1955 in Maidenhead Berkshire.

Cemetery Sunday - Fading

 

 

Sandstone weathers over time, leaving some gravestones completely indecipherable.  It is such a shame that there names and the historical information is now lost.

 

The only information readable on the gravestone above is John Pearce.

 



Above is the gravestone of the Brill family.  The only name that remains readable is that of young Arthur William Brill, son of John and Florence Jane Brill of Norden Farm. 

"Born March 18th 1892.  Died Jany 5th 1894. - The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away.  Blessed be thy name of the Lord."

Unfortunately the name of the person memorilised above young Arthur is now completely lost.

By photographing the older gravestones, I hope that in some way I am preserving the information for many many years to come.  Once it has worn away, it is gone forever.


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Catherine Shelton and Her Second Husband John Shelton, of Albert Street - Lost Four Sons.

Monument to Catherine Shelton and John Shelton.  All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In loving memory of Catherine, the beloved wife of John Shelton who departed this life June 6th 1913, aged 83 years.  Come unto me all ye who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Also of

John Shelton who departed this life January 15th 1922, aged 91 years.  Rest in peace."

Catherine Shelton was born Catherine Robins in 1829 in Reading Berkshire.  Unfortunately, I have been unable to find any information on her parents.

In 1847 in Eton Buckinghamshire, Catherine married Henry Mealing, a labourer from Bray, Berkshire.  In 1851 Catherine and Henry are living in Post Office Lane in Maidenhead Berkshire, with their two children Catherine and Henry Thomas Mealing.  In 1854 Henry Mealing passes away. Catherine and Henry's final child, a son John, was born after Henry's death in 1855.

John Shelton was born in 1829 in Bisham Berkshire to John Roswell Shelton, a farmer, and his wife Anna Goodchild. John first appears on the 1841 Census, aged 20, living with his parents and siblings at Lee Farm, Bisham Berkshire.  On the 1851 Census John is lodging at the home of Henry and Ruth Hearn in Knowl Hill, Berkshire.

In 1857 in Eton Buckinghamshire, Catherine married John Shelton, a railway plate layer.  In 1861 Catherine and John can be found living in Bridge Street, Maidenhead Berkshire, along with Catherine's children from her previous marriage, Catherine, Thomas, and John, as well as three-year-old Charles and one year old Daniel Shelton (who was to sadly pass away that year), her children with John.

In 1871 the family has moved to 11 Princess Street in Maidenhead.  Catherine, (listed as Kate) and Thomas are still living with their mother and stepfather.  The family had since expanded to include George, William, Walter, Frederick, and Mary Ann.  Sadly, 13-year-old Charles Shelton was to die that year from brain disease.

In 1878 John was the victim of crime when young William Leaver stole six cabbages from John's allotment garden near Maidenhead Railway Station. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 19th June 1878:

"Maidenhead Borough Bench. MONDAY, June 17. Before the Mayor and J. H. Clark, Esq . .

 IN THE CABBAGE GARDEN- William Leaver, a boy, who sometime since was brought before the magistrates for non-attendance at school, was charged with having, on the 15th inst, stolen six cabbages growing in a garden belonging to John Shelton.

—The witness against him was a man who at a quarter past six o'clock on Saturday morning was on the railway station waiting for a train to Reading. He said I walked round towards Mr. Wethered's coal shed and saw this lad in Shelton's garden, cutting the cabbage. It was an allotment garden next to Leavers: Shelton is a railway man. I called to the boy and asked him what he was doing: I thought he'd a' dropped down. He picked tip the cabbages and made to run away, but I told him to put 'em down, and he did. I then went over the ground and fetched the cabbages away—six—and took 'em to Shelton's house. I am sure he is the boy.

—The value of the cabbages was here fixed et 4d.

—Superintendent Austin mentioned that the boy had been away from home since Thursday morning, and that he had previously cut cabbages and hawked them for sale, and got other children to do so.

—The Mayor told him, "We let you off with a fine this time, but if this ever happens again, you will go to gaol. You will be fined 5s., with 8s. costs, and 4d. damage, and this must be paid by Saturday week, or you will have 14 days' imprisonment."

—" And," added the Clerk, "he might have been sent to prison for six months for stealing from a garden.""

The 1881 Census finds the family in Albert Street in Maidenhead, a few yards from their old house in Princess Street.  Five-year-old Earnest [sic] had joined the family in 1876. Sadly in 1882 15-year-old Walter was to drown whilst swimming int he river Thames. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 24th May 1882:

"BAD DEATH BY DROWNING. About 8 o'clock on Monday evening, Walter Shelton, age 15, of 36, Albert-street, and in the employ of Mr. Fernie, grocer, High-street, went with two other lads to bathe in the river on the Bucks side, near the Bush. About half-past 8 o'clock Shelton swam across, and was returning when, about midway, he was heard to cry " Help me!" twice, then sank and never rose again. Search was shortly after made for the body, but it could not be discovered till about 8 o'clock yesterday (Tuesday) morning, when it was found in about eight feet of water, by two men who had been dragging the river. The body was against the trunk of a tree lying in the bed of the river. The body was then removed to Skindle's Hotel to await an inquest. The Borough police took what action was possible in the matter, and the unfortunate boy's clothing is at the Borough police station. The deceased was, we understand, one of six children."

In 1904 John Mealing, Catherine's son from her first marriage was to pass away from cancer at his home in Yorktown Surrey. The Aldershot News reported on 2nd July 1904:

"DEATH OF SUPT. J. MEALING AT CAMBERLEY. With much regret, we have this week to record the death of Mr. John Mealing, superintendent of the Camberley, Yorktown, and Frimley Volunteer Fire Brigade, the sad event taking place at his residence, The Beeches, Frimley-road, on Sunday evening last. The deceased, who was 49 years of age, leaves a widow, five sons, and three daughters, for all of whom the greatest sympathy is felt, although death in this case is an ending to a very long and painful illness, for he had been ill for eight months, suffering from cancer. 

Formerly in business at Maidenhead, Mr. J Mealing, 18 years ago, came to Yorktown to take up the cycle trade, and he has resided here ever since. He was one of the originators of the sports of the old Yorktown and Camberley Cycling Club—which is now amalgamated with St. Michael’s Club—and the first two races in connection with it were run off on the road. Since then the sports have developed wonderfully, until to-day the meeting is one of the most popular in this ‘part of the country. 

To the general public, however, it was by his enthusiastic connection with the local Fire Brigade that the deceased was perhaps best known. He was one of the first to join the Brigade, of which, in 1890, he became the engineer. From that he rose to be superintendent, a position he held for some years, and which he was holding at the time of his death. During the time he held the office the Fire Brigade obtained their own fire station—which, it will be remembered, was built by the members of the Brigade in their spare time—the steam fire engine, hose reel, and new hose, and the fire escape. He did much to strengthen the position of the Brigade, and to bring the members to their present highly efficient state. With the neighbouring Brigades, too, he was held in the greatest esteem and popularity, and it was always one of his greatest pleasures to get his brigade to turn out smartly with their engine to take part in the Aldershot carnivals. In local carnivals and sports he invariably rendered cheerful assistance, and at St. Michael’s annual sports had been for some years superintendent of the track. In politics and similar matters he took no prominent part, but he was a Churchman, and since Easter of 1903 had been a sidesman at St. Michael’s, Yorktown."

John and Catherine Shelton remained at 36 Albert Street until Catherine's death on 6th July 1913.  John Shelton was to pass away on 15th January 1922. The Maidenhead Advertiser carried the following announcement on 18th January 1922:

"Deaths

Shelton- On Sunday, Jan. 15th, at 44 Albert-street, John Shelton, passed away peacefully in his 92nd year. - Reat in peace." 

Alice Thompson and Her Husband Charles Salway Thompson, Gardener - Attempted Suicide of Thier Son William Charles Thompson

Monument to Alice Thompson and Charles Salway Thompson, All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In loving memory of Alice beloved wife of Charles. S. Thompson died Decr 6th 1918 aged 57 years - God is our refuge.

Also Charles Salway her beloved husband died Feb 5th 1945 aged 88 years - at rest"

Alice Thompson was born Alice Pearce in the February 1861 in Bright Waltham, Berkshire to Charles Pearce, a carter, and his wife Amy Collins. 

Alice first appears on the 1861 Census aged just 1 month, living with her parents and maternal grandparents David and Sarah Collins at Bright Waltham Green.  In 1871 ten-year-old Alice is still living with her grandparents David and Sarah at Bright Waltham Green, however Alice's parents and her younger siblings had moved to Scarlett's Lane in Wargrave.  It's possible that Alice stayed behind with her grandparents to continue her education.

In 1881 Alice is in service as a housemaid for Richard S. H. Jones, a barrister, and his wife Florence at Woodlands, Binfield, Berkshire.  That same year Alice married Charles Thompson.

Charles Salway Thompson was born on 10 January 1857 in Little Dunham, Norfolk to Robert Thompson, an agricultural labourer, and his wife Ann Harpur, a charwoman (house cleaner).    Charles first appears on the 1861 Census, aged 4, living with his parents and siblings at 4 Muffetts Lane, Little Dunham, Norfolk. Chares's father Robert was to pass away in 1870. In 1871 Charles is living with his widowed mother and five siblings in Little Dunhan, Norfolk.  Charles's occupation is listed as a gardener's boy. 

In 1881 24-year-old Charles in lodging in the home of Thomas and Martha Crockford at Bear Hill, Wargrave, Berkshire.  Charles has progressed from gardener's boy to domestic gardener.

1891 finds Charles and Alice living in Gardener's House, part of the North Farm estate in Breamore, Hampshire, along with their four children, Archibald R, William Charles, Theodore V, and Elsie M.  1901 and the family has moved to 68 Powney Road, Maidenhead Berkshire, where Charles is a jobbing gardener, and his sons Archibald and William are under gardeners, and Theodore is a garden boy.

In 1906 Charles's second son William Charles was charged with attempting to murder himself. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 3rd October 1906:

"PRISONER COMMITTED FOR TRIAL. Wm. Charles Thompson, a young man of respectable appearance, was brought up charged with having attempted to kill and murder himself. 

The Magistrates' Clerk informed the Bench that they had a case of attempted suicide before them a short time since, when the magistrates took a lenient view of the case and allowed the prisoner to go away with his friends. Now that they had another case before them, he should, if the case was established, on behalf of the police ask them to commit the prisoner for trial. 

Charles Salway Thompson, residing at 68, Powney-road, a jobbing-gardener, said the prisoner was his second son and was 22 years of age. Prisoner lived at home with him and was a gardener. On the 11th September prisoner was at home. Witness got up at twenty minutes past 6 o'clock, and prisoner got up at about half-past six. His son sat down and put on his boots and then went into the scullery as though going to wash. He came back to the kitchen as if going for warm water, as he was in the habit of doing and then turned back and went outside to the w.c. Witness twice heard a tapping on the wall, and the second time he went out to the w.c. he found his son on the seat with his head bent over his knees. Prisoner said to him " I've done it now, Dad." He could not see what prisoner had done at first, but when he raised his head witness saw blood coming from his throat. There was blood on the floor and his son said " Clear this away before mother sees it." He called his eldest son and sent him for a doctor. He supported his son until the doctor came. Prisoner said nothing more. He had noticed nothing about his son to cause any anxiety. He had been depressed at times, but had been better lately. 

By the Bench : His son suffered from epileptic fits; he had one a few days before this occurred and had had several since. He was in a regular place at " Lawnfield." He had been attended by Dr. Edge and Dr. Plumbe for these fits. His son had been at work at" Lawnfield" for five years. 

The Magistrates' Clerk : Had he told you anything about having bad notice to leave? --No; he had no worry at all at his place. Dr. John Armstrong Hartley. acting as locum tenens for Dr. Plumbe, said that on Sept. 11 he was called to see the prisoner at about 7.10 a.m. He found him sitting on the seat of the w.c. at the rear of 68 Powney-road. He was suffering from a severe wound in the throat and loss of blood. The deep wound was about three inches long, and there were some lighter wounds, principally at the right hand side. The deep wound was such as might have been caused by a knife such as the one produced (a gardener's knife). It was a dangerous wound, principally from haemorrhage. Prisoner had lost a good deal of blood. He could scarcely speak when he (witness) first saw him. Prisoner was now out of danger. 

By Mr. Simpson: Neither of the main arteries was divided.

The Magistrates' Clerk Is the prisoner of a sane mind? 

Witness: Yes, he is now but he is not when suffering from the fits. I do not know whether he was in a fit at the time he cut his throat. 

Answering the Mayor, Dr. Hartley said he could not say whether prisoner would be likely to commit such an act when in one of the fits. He could not say whether he was conscious or not at such times. The fits he suffered from were a minor form of epilepsy. 

P.C. Walker said that on the 11th of September, at 7.15 a.m., he received information that a man had cut his throat at 68, Powney-road. He went there and saw the prisoner in the kitchen, being attended to by the last witness. After the wound was dressed be assisted prisoner to his bedroom. He then searched the w.c., and found the knife produced in a pool of blood. He bad kept observation on the prisoner every night since. Prisoner bad made no statement to him, and he brought him to the station that morning and charged him with attempting to commit suicide. 

By the Bench: Prisoner had been in his father's house since the occurrence. He had been up a day or two lately, when he was kept under observation by another policeman. Prisoner had had fits while he had been watching him. He had two during last night—one at 2 a.m. and another at 7a.m. Prisoner did not know what he was doing whilst in the fits, which lasted two or three minutes, and he seemed in great pain at these times. Prisoner was cautioned and charged in the usual way, but had nothing to say. The magistrates having consulted, the Mayor told prisoner that the Bench were of opinion that he should be committed for trial to the Quarter Sessions to be held at Reading on 15th October. If he were taken to Reading he would, no doubt, be placed in the infirmary, and proper care would be taken of him and supervision exercised over him. The Bench, however, would like him to say that if the father of prisoner was prepared to take care of him and to present him to the Quarter Sessions, they would be prepared to let him out on bail. His father would see that it was of the utmost importance that prisoner should be taken proper care of. Prisoner's father undertook to take care of his son, and on this undertaking he was liberated on bail —himself in £20 and his father in a like sum. Towards the close of the hearing prisoner had a seizure in the dock, and Dr. Hartley had to be called to him."

William later pleaded guilty to attempted suicide. His father promised to look after him and send him to hospital in London.

On 1911 Census, William can be found living with his parents and elder brother Archibald, at 68 Powney Road, Maidenhead. William was to pass away that same year on September 9th, but I have been unable to find any report into his death. He is buried in All Saint's Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead.

Sadly, Alice was to pass away on 6th December 1918.  

On the 1939 England and Wales Register Charles can be found living with his daughter Elsie, who is listed as incapacitated, at 14 Havelock Road, Maidenhead, Berkshire. Charles was to pass away 5th February 1945.

Cemetery Sunday - All Saints (Maidenhead) Cemetery

All Saints (Maidenhead) Cemetery, All Saints Avenue, Maidenhead Berkshire is one of my favourite cemeteries to visit.  It's not remarkable or full of impressive monuments to important people from the past (although it has many people of interest), but it has an amazing, calm and welcoming atmosphere.

All Saints Cemetery opened in 1888 when it became apparent that space was running out in the town's churchyards.  The cemetery covers around 5 acres of land, containing space for 10,000 graves.  To date there has been 14,600 interments.  All Saints closed to burials around 1953 when the mordern lawn cemetery at Braywick was opened.  In somce cases interment of ashes is still permitted at All Saints Cemetery.


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Frederick Albert Wolff May, Steamship Owner and Business Manager, and Ida May his wife

Angel monument to Frederick Wolff May and Ida May, Bray Parish Cemetery, Holyport Berkshire.

"In affectionate remembrance of my dear husband Frederick Wolff May died 16 August 1924 aged 51 - Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God.

Also in memory of Ida his wife died ? December ?"

Frederick Albert Wolff May and his twin sister Clara Fanny May were born on 10th October 1872 in Hamburg Germany to Frederick Albert May, a colonial merchant, and his wife Clara Matilda Wolff.

Frederick first appears aged 8 on the 1881 Census living with his sister and parents at The Birches, Lawrie Park Gardens, Lewisham London.  I cannot find the family on the 1891 Census, and I can only imagine that they were out of the country due to Fredrick's work as a colonial merchant.

Clara Mathilda May passes away in Kensington on 25th March 1896 aged only 47 years.  She is buried in Brompton Cemetery, London.  In 1901 the widowed Frederick Snr is now living at 10 The Boltons, Kensington London along with Frederick Jr, now a steamship manager in his uncle Gustav Wilhelm Wolff's shipbuilding company Harland and Wolff (manufacturers of the Titanic), and Clara.  In 1903 Frederick Snr marries Louise Spencer Smith, however five years later in 1908 Fredrick Snr dies of typhoid fever and heart disease in Dorset.

Ida May was born Ida Elizabeth Agnes Patrickson in 1878 in Newcastle, Northumberland to Anthony Patrickson, a saddler, and his wife Elizabeth.  Ida first appears on the 1881 Census as Lizzie, aged 3, living with her parents and elder sister Margaret, at 100 Gloucester Road, Newcastle-Upon-Tyne, Northumberland. In 1891 the family had moved to 73 Maple Street, Elswick, Northumberland. In 1897 Ida gave birth to a son, Cecil Galandez Patrickson, no father was given when Cecil was christened on 19th December 1902 in Westminster, London. However, Cecil was to later adopt the surname May.

 

In 1911 Frederick and Ida are living together as man and wife at Woodmancote, Cliveden, near Maidenhead. Living with them at the time is Ida's younger sister Florence Patrickson.  Cecil, aged 15, is possibly working as a domestic footman in Hampshire, for the Sandford family. In 1913 Frederick married Ida in St George Hanover Square, London. Frederick Wolff May was to pass away on 16th August 1924 at the relatively young age of 51 in Maidenhead, Berkshire.

I have been unable to locate a death for Ida, unfortunately the details on the monument we illegible.  

Clara, Frederick's twin sister never married and died aged 76 in September 1949, leaving large sums of money to those who had been in service at her home.  To view some of Clara's family pictures, please click here.

War Grave Wednesday - Gerard Hamilton Maffett - Royal Air Force

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

Gerard Hamilton Maffett was born 11th June 1916 in Murree, India to Lieutenant-Colonel Reginald Ernest Maffett and his wife Gwendoline Mary de Rutzen.

Gerard was educated at Imperial Service College in Windsor, Berkshire.  In 1934 he finished his education and took a job with the Daily Mail in London.  Four years later Gerard enlisted with the Royal Air Force Volunteer Reserve (RAFVR) as a U/T Pilot.  He started out flying Tiger Moths from White Waltham airfield near Maidenhead, Berkshire.  On 22nd June 1940 Gerard converted from Tiger Moths to Hurricane aircraft and joined 257 Sqaudron at Northolt on 7th July 1940.

Gerard flew on his first operation on 18th August 1940 where he is credited for destroying a Dornier Do17 aircraft and damaging a Heinkel He111.

On 31st August 1940, nine Hurricanes took off from Martlesham Heath at 8:25am, they were ordered to partol Debden at 15,000 feet.  The Squadron climbed towards Debden, but encountered two large formations of Junkers Ju88 aircraft at 14,000 feet with several formations of Messerschmitt Bf110s at 16,000 feet.  Unable to catch up with the Junkers Ju88s the squardon persued the Messerschmitt formations.  At least six Messerschmitt Bf110s were destroyed, however the squadron suffered the loss of two Hurricanes.  One of those was Gerard's P3175, which crashed into the foresore at Stone Point, Walton-on-the-Naxe, Essex at arouns 8:50am.  Gereard was able to bail out of his striken aircraft but his parachute failed to open due to low altitude.  Gerard was killed on impact.

Gerard's elder brother John Francis Maffett, Wing Commander with the RAF was also killed in action on 12th February 1942.  He is commemorated on the Runnymede Memorial, Egham, Surrey.

Reginald Ernest Maffett passed away in 1949 and Gwendoline Mary in 1975 aged 100 years.

Bewteen 1972 and 1973 the remains of Gerard's crashed Hurricane, including instrument panel and windscreen, together with an almost complete engine and the remains of the three wooden propellor blades was recovered.  They're now displayed in The Battle of Britain Muesum in Hendon, London.


They gave their tomorrows for our todays.

Catherine Woodbridge - Her Brother John Henry Woodbridge - Accidental Death

Monument to Catherine and John Henry Woodbridge, Methodist Church, High Street, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In affectionate remembrance of Catherine third daughter of William and Amelia Woodbridge who died July 18th 1862 aged 19 years.

Also

John Henry second son of the above who died July 12th 1880 aged 30 years."

Catherine Woodbridge was born on 13th March 1843 in Maidenhead, Berkshire to William Woodbridge, a carpenter and builder and later, Mayor of Maidenhead, and his wife Amelia Jones.

On the 1851 Census, eight-year-old Catherine can be found living with her parents at Park Road in Maidenhead. 1861 Census, just over a year from her death Catherine is still living with her parents and siblings at Park Road in Maidenhead, no occupation is listed for her, but her elder sister Sarah Jane is listed as milliner (hat maker).  It is possible that Catherine helped her sister.  Sadly, Catherine was to pass away on 18th July 1862.

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John Henry Woodbridge was born on 20th September 1849.  One year old John can be found on the 1851 Census with his family at Park Road, Maidenhead and again aged 12 in 1861.  in 1871 the family has moved to Queen Street in Maidenhead.  There is no occupation listed for John, but it is probable that he helped his father in the building industry.  1871 was a busy year for William Woodbridge as he was contracted to build Maidenhead's first main railway station.

 

 

In 1872 in Sussex John Henry married Jane Ann Pacy, known as Jeanie. in 1873 their only child was born Charles Albert Woodbridge.  Seven years later John Henry was to pass away in after an accident on 12th July 1880. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on the inquest into John's death on 21st July 1880:

"THE SAD ACCIDENT. On Wednesday an inquest was held at the Fire Horse Shoes Inn, Remenham, W. Weedon, Seq., and a jury, on the body of John Henry Woodbridge. aged 30 years, son of Ald. Woodbridge. of Maidenhead. 

Mr. William Woodbridge said the deceased, my son, aged about 30, assisted in my business. On Monday we west to Watlington, and in the afternoon my son was driving me by way of Henley, at about 4.43. We were some 30 yards or so from this house, having passed over the top of the steep hill, when the pony stumbled and fell. Mv son, who was driving very slowly and carefully was, on a higher seat than myself, and was pitched out of the trap right away from the pony, and I was also thrown out. Soon recovering myself. I went to my son, and found him lying in a pool of blood, with his face on the ground, and with blood flowing from his ear. I called to him and said "Where are hurt, John?" but he did not answer me. He only looked. Scarcely a second or two elapsed before I went to him. Failing to be able to lift him up myself, I called for help. My son was moved to the bank, and to this house, medical aid being meanwhile sent for from Henley. Mr. Jeston arrived within an hour, and called again in the evening with his partner. My son got much worse, and died at about half-past ten the same night. Wallington is about 18 miles from Maidenhead. We stayed three hours or thereabout, and again baited the pony at Henley. I imagine the pony was somewhat tired in coming op the hill, and that it stumbled crossing a small rut, or gutter in the road, caused by the rain. 

Dr. Andrew Harrison, landlord of the Five Horse Shoes Inn, Remenham, said: Hearing from my son that an accident had happened near by. I at once went to the spot to render any assistance I could. I saw the deceased sitting on the side of the road supported by two men, and his face being washed. He appeared quite insensible, and was brought here by my wish, I saw nothing whatever in the road to account for the horse stumbling, and the harness was all good. The deceased expired at 10.30. The coroner made a few remarks on the sad calamity, and the jury returned a verdict of "Accidental Death." body was removed at the conclusion of the evidence to Maidenhead, and on Friday morning interred in the Wesleyan Chapel burial ground, in the presence of a large number of sorrowing relatives and friends." 

Five Horse Shoes, Remenham, Henley.
Now a private house.

The recently widowed twenty-six-year-old Jeanie and eight-year-old Charles can be found on the 1881 Census living at 1 Grenfell Road (near to the recently built Maidenhead Rail Station).  Jeanie took in lodgers at her home to make ends meet.  Charles was to follow in his grandfather William's footsteps to become a carpenter and builder.  He later named his first-born son John Henry after his father.

 

In 1893 Jane Ann remarried John Herridge, a carpenter from Maidenhead.

 

Both Catherine and John Henry are interred in the vaults beneath the Methodist church in Maidenhead High Street.



Cemetery Sunday - Together #2

After taking a picture of the two gravestones sharing a secret here, I vowed to go back to All Saints Cemetery in Maidenhead Berkshire and find out who was buried there and whether they were related in any way.

The left stone:  "George William Harrison who departed this life 13th May 1895 aged 68 years - Cecil Eliza Harrison loving wife of the above who died February 2? 1918 aged 86 years."

George was a railway clerk and moved with his wife from London to Maidenhead in the early 1890s.  Possibly to work with Maidenhead's railway.  Cecil continued to live in Maidenhead until her death in 1915.


The right stone:  "In loving memory of Sarah Elizabeth Broad.  Who died August 17th 1896 aged 42 years - Also Sovaness John Broad husband of the above.  Who died Febry 14th 1904 aged 60 - Also Eliza Wheeler who died Jany 11th 1911 aged 86."

Sarah Elizabeth Broad and her husband, a coachman, lived in park street from 1881 until her death in 1896, where Sovaness continued to live with his mother-in-law Elizabeth Wheeler until his death in 1904.  Elizabeth Wheeler followed them to the grave in 1911.

I have found no connection between the two families, other than they are buried next to each other.


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Little Jemima Ann Walker and Her Parents Robert and Ann Walker - Mary Ann Curtis Treffry, John Higgs, Jemima Griffin Higgs - Methodists of Maidenhead

 

Monument to Jemima Ann Walker, Robert Walker J.P, Ann Walker, Mary Ann Curtis Treffry, John Higgs Esq J.P and Jemima Griffin Higgs, Methodist Church, Hight Street, Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

 

"In memorium Jemima Ann, only daughter of Robert and Ann Walker died Jany 15 1860 aged 10 years.  Robert Walker, J.P. died August 1. 1886 aged 64 years.  Ann Walker died July 12 1896 aged 78 years."

 

"Mary Ann Curtis Treffry died Dec 16 1864 aged 74 years.  John Higgs Esq. J.P. died June 3 1867 aged 6? years.  Jemima Griffin Higgs died Nov 3 1886 aged 79 years."

 

"He that overcometh, the same shall be clothed in white raiment; and I will not blot out his name out of the book of life, but I will confess his name before my Father, and before his angels - Rev 3."

 

 

Jemima Ann was born in 1850 to Robert Walker, a chemist and painter and later a barrister and Justice of The Peace, and his wife Ann Wright.  In 1851, one year old Jemima can be found living with her parents and her uncle John Higgs and aunt Jemima G Higgs in Maidenhead High Street.  Sadly, young Jemima was to pass away from a short illness before the next census was taken.

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Robert Walker was born in Dudley, Worcestershire on 22 January 1822 to Robert Walker, and his wife Mary Ann Curtis Cullern.  In 1841 Robert is an apprentice chemist and has moved to Maidenhead where he is living with his brother-in-law John Higgs, a chemist in Maidenhead's High Street. In 1847 Robert married Ann Wright, daughter of Murrel Wright of Sunninghill Berkshire, and his wife Mary Grace, in Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

Robert was also a preacher for the Wesleyan Methodist churches in Maidenhead and Cookham Rise and in 1865 he wrote a book entitled, A Collection of Favourite Hymns used by the Wesleyan Methodist Sabbath & Day Schools, of which Robert was superintendent. 

The 1881 Census sees Robert's occupation listed as magistrate and local preacher.

 

On 22nd July 1886 Robert was forced to be absent from a a day trip with the Wesleyan Sunday and day Schools to Burnham Beeches due to severe illness.  10 days later Robert passed away on 1st August 1886. The Reading Mercury reported on the funeral on the 14th august 1886:

"The late Mr. Robert Walker— The funeral of the late Mr. Robert Walker, J.P., of Kidwells Park, Maidenhead, whose death on the lst inst, was announced in our obituary last week, took place on Thursday, the 5th inst., amid every manifestation sorrow and respect. The deceased, who was 64 years of age, had been in ill-health for several months, but his death occurred somewhat unexpectedly. In early life Mr. Walker was apprenticed to the late Mr. J. Higgs, chemist, and subsequently set up in business. About ten years ago Mr. Walker retired altogether, and the business has since been carried on by his son. 

Mr. Walker was for many years member of the Town Council, and was twice Mayor, one of his official acts being the laying of the foundation-stone of the Maidenhead railway-station. He was justice of the peace for the borough, one of the guardians of the Cookham Union, Chairman of the Maidenhead Gas and Coke Company, and a Trustee of the Maidenhead Savings' Bank and of some of the local charities. He was an active member of the Wesleyan Methodist body, and was a local preacher and an earnest teacher in the Sunday School, of which he had, at the time of his death, been superintendent for about 40 years. He had filled the office of circuit steward, and recently presented to the circuit a new chapel at Cookham Rise. He was also a warm supporter of the temperance cause, and leading member of the local lodge of Good Templars. 

The funeral procession on Thursday was a long and imposing one, and included members of the Orders of Good Templars and Rechabites; the coffin was carried by young men and covered with wreaths contributed by friends and societies with whom deceased had been connected; the members of deceased's family, local preachers, leaders, and stewards of the Wesleyan body; Sunday-school teachers; the directors, engineer, and secretary of the Gas Works; deputation of the British and Foreign Bible Society (of which deceased had been treasurer); the Rev. —Le Pla and deacons of the Congregational Church; the Guardians of the Poor, represented by their Clerk, Mr. R. A. Ward; the Rev. I. Irving and deacons of the Baptist Church; and numerous other friends. The procession started punctually at 2.30, and passed through the Park and the Marlow-road, and thence to the Wesleyan Chapel, the road being thronged with spectators. There was large congregation in the Chapel. An impressive service was read by the Rev. J. Knowles, assisted by the Rev. J. C. Trufford. On Sunday evening a funeral sermon was preached to a crowded congregation by the Rev. J. S. Hicks, of Portsmouth, formerly minister in this town. Mr. Walker leaves widow and one son."

 

In 1891 the widowed Ann has moved to Wargrave to live with her sister Elizabeth Wright, before her own death in 1896.  Both Robert and Ann were interred in a vault beneath the Methodist church in Maidenhead High Street along with their daughter Jemima. The Maindehead Advertiser reported on Ann's funeral on 22nd July 1896:

FUNERAL OF THE LATE MRS. ROBERT WALKER. The remains of the late Mrs. Walker (widow of Mr. Rob, rt Walker, J.P., who passed away some ten years ago) were interred in the family vault at the Wesleyan Chapel on Friday afternoon last, in the presence of a very large number of Wesleyan Methodists and members of other Nonconformist churches in the town. The' funeral cortege left "Huntley," Castle-hill, at about one o'clock. and proceeded to the chapel via High Town-road and King-street. The remains had been placed in a leaden coffin, which was enclosed by a handsome casket of polished English oak, with brass fittings. It was covered with beautiful wreaths, as was also the top of the funeral car. There were eight professional bearers. The procession was met at the chapel-doors by the Rev. D. Pearson, superintendent minister of the Windsor Wesleyan circuit, who, with the assistance of the Rev. H. Hopkinson, conducted the service in the chapel and at the grave. 

Prior to the arrival of the funeral party, a large congregation had assembled to pay a last mark of respect for a lady who, by her consistent Christian character, and by her generous support of Methodist work and practical sympathy for the poor, had endeared herself to a very wide circle of neighbours and friends. The whole of the centre seats were reserved for the numerous members of deceased's society class, officers and teachers of the Sunday School, local preachers, church officials, and members of the mothers' meeting. The side seats and transepts were placed at the disposal of other persons desiring to attend, and the body of the chapel was well filled, while many occupied seats in the galleries. As the congregation were taking their seats. Mr. Chas. Sit. Banwell, organist at St. Mary's Church, who kindly presided at the organ, played the following selection of music:—Largo in G (Handel); Improvisation on Redhead's tune to" When our heads are bowed with woe "; and " But the Lord is mindful of His own " (Mendelssohn). 

As the funeral procession entered the chapel, Mr. Banwell played very effectively Mendelssohn's "0 rest in the Lord." The service was of a very impressive character, and an appropriate address was given by the Rev. D. Pearson, who spoke of deceased's enthusiasm for all good things, of her sterling Christian character and of her generous gifts to and valuable work for the church of her choice. He also referred to deceased's patience in suffering and to her entire resignation to the will of God, and her preparedness to meet Him. The rev. gentleman spoke also of the great loss the Maidenhead Wesleyan Church had sustained by Mrs. Walker's death and exhorted his hearers to seek to live as Godly and as consistent and useful a life as had their departed sister. Incidentally, Mr. Pearson spoke of the hospitality of the late Mr. and Mrs. Robert Walker and of the kindly way they entertained ministers and preachers, and recalled enjoyable experiences at their house when, as a student, he twice preached at Maidenhead upwards of 40 years ago. The address was listened to with rapt attention and the rev. gentleman's touching references to the deceased and his earnest appeals moved many to tears 

The coffin bore the following inscription: 

ANN WALKER, Died 12th July, 1896, Aged 78 years. 

The funeral arrangements were admirably carried out by Mr. Theo. Hewitt, High-street. Reference was made to the and death of Mrs. Walker at the Wesleyan Chapel on Sunday, both morning and evening, and appropriate hymns were sung. The preachers were Rev. H. Hopkinson (morning) and Mr. Jenkins (evening). The pulpit and communion-table were draped in black on the day of the funeral and on Sunday."

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Mary Ann Curtis Treffry was born Mary Ann Curtis Cullern on 4th September 1789, the second daughter of Thomas Cullern, a well-respected tradesman in Maidenhead and his wife Ann Curties.  On 17th January 1820 Mary Ann married Robert Walker Snr in Dudley Worcestershire.  Both Mary Ann, her husband Robert Snr, son Robert and her stepdaughter Jemima Griffin Walker were extremely active Wesleyan Methodists and can be credited with the building of a Methodist Church in Maidenhead.

On 14th June 1830, Robert Walker Snr died, and Mary Ann became a widow.  It was this that prompted her to move back to Maidenhead from Dudley to be closer to her son Robert and stepbrother John Higgs.  On 28th June 1835 Mary Ann became the teacher at the Methodist Sunday School.  On 9th November 1838 Mary Ann married Rev Richard Treffry, at Hoxton London, where she lived with her new husband until 1833 when upon his retirement due to illness they moved back to Maidenhead.  Rev Treffry suffered greatly with sickness from 1833 until his death on 18th September 1842.  Mary Ann continued to be active in the Wesleyan Methodist community and completed many works for charity until her death from illness on 16th December 1864.  Mary Ann Treffry was interred in the family vault beneath the Methodist church in Maidenhead High Street, next to the remains of her grand-daughter Jemima, her son Robert and his wife Ann.

In 1866 her relative James A Macdonald complied Mary Ann's memoirs into a book entitled Heavenward:  Memorials of Mrs M. A. C. Treffry of Maidenhead.

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John Higg was born in Maidenhead on 29th June 1800 to John Higgs and his wife Ann Cullern.  John marries Jemima Griffin Walker on 10th December 1827.  In 1841 John Higgs is a Chemist living and working in Maidenhead High Street.  at the time of the 1841 Census, his sister's second husband Rev Richard Treffry is living with John and Jemima.  1851 and John and Jemima have moved in with their nephew/stepbrother Robert Walker.  John's occupations are listed as magistrate, chemist, and postmaster.  in 1861, 6 years before John's death, the family are living at Castle Hill Villa, St Mark's Road, Maidenhead.  John is listed as a Justice of the Peace and local Wesleyan preacher.  John Higgs passed away on 3rd June 1867.  John Higgs was interred in the family vault beneath the Methodist church in Maidenhead High Street. The Windsor, and Eton Express reported on 8th June 1867:

"Obituary this week records the death of Mr. John Higgs, who departed this life on Wednesday morning. The deceased gentleman was a native of this town; he had always taken a very active part in the municipal and other public matters; and he was one of the borough magistrates. Mr. Higgs was one of the leading and most respected members of the Wesleyan congregation."

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Jemima Griffin Higgs was born Jemima Griffin Walker in Dudley Worcestershire in 1807 to Robert Walker and his first wife Elizabeth Griffin.  Jemima remained in Maidenhead after her husband's death.  She lived alone with only one general servant for company until her own death on 3rd November 1886

On 13th November 1886 the Slough, Eton and Windsor Observer reported:

"Death of Mrs J. G. Higgs - In the removal by death of Mrs Jemima Griffin Higgs, of 3 Orchard Villas, Castle Hill, widow of the late John Higgs Esq., J.P., who died on 4th June 1867, the local Wesleyan body have lost another great supporter of their cause.  Mrs. Higgs had been in ill-health for many years, and at times could only get about with assistance, and this necessitated her being for the most part confined to her house.  On Wednesday, the 3rd Inst., the deceased lady appeared if anything a little better than usual, but shortly after going to rest she had a fit of coughing and ruptured a blood vessel.  Dr. Plume and Mr. Montgomery were at once summoned, but their aid was of no avail, and the sufferer passed away at around 9 o'clock, having attained the age of 79.

The funeral took place on Monday afternoon, at the Wesleyan chapel, in the presence of a large number of persons.  It was of the simplest possible description, which was in accordance of the oft-expressed wish of the deceased.  Not a single flower being placed on the coffin."

Jemima Griffin Higgs joined the rest of her family in the vault beneath the Methodist church in Maidenhead High Street.

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First World War Commonwealth War Grave - Private James Henry Golding, Royal Berkshire Regiment

 



"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

 

 

James Henry Golding was born in London in 1876 to John Golding and Mary Eacott, a mangle and needlework woman.  Sometime between James's birth and 1881 Mary was widowed.

 

In 1891 census James is an errand boy, living with his mother at 6 West Street, Maidenhead.  I am unable to locate him on the 1901 census, but in 1906 James married Elizabeth Maynard in Eton.  In 1908 they had a daughter Amy Ethel.  By 1911 James was a postman working and living at 45 Portlock Road, Maidenhead Berkshire. 

 

James Henry enlisted with the 3rd Royal Berkshire Regiment on 16th January 1914 However a problem that had plagued James since he was 27 years old was to cut his service when he was discharged as no longer being fit for service on 13th July 1915.  His Amy Pension Record states,

 

"Reason for discharge: Chronic suppurative disease of the middle ear.

He appears to be dull and stupid.  Probably on account of defective hearing which is only ½ of normal.  There is no discharge from the ears at present, but the ear specialist reports that there is a dry perforation with much destruction of membrane in both ears & that no improvement is likely.

Not fault of nor aggravated by service

Discharged as permanently unfit."

 

However, in 1918 it seems that there was a change of mind as his record states,

"The Pension Appeal Tribunal decided on 22^nd Nov 1918 that this man’s unfitness was aggravated by military service is consequence of the present war."

 

James continued to work at Maidenhead Post Office until this death on 5th January 1919

 

 



Eliza and William Deacon - Ray Mead Hotel, Maidenhead Berkshire, East Arms Hotel, Hurley, Berkshire

Monument to Eliza and William Deacon, St Luke's Churchyard, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In loving memory of Eliza Deacon who died 11th February 1886 aged 57 years.  She looked well to the ways of her household.

Also William Deacon who died 10th September 1894 aged 59 years.  His end was peace."

Eliza Deacon was born Eliza Harman in 1828 in Bray Berkshire to Richard Harman, an innkeeper, and his wife Sarah Skinner.  Eliza first appears on the 1841 Census, aged 12, living with her parents and siblings in Touchen End, Bray, Berkshire. In 1851, 22-year-old Eliza was a house servant for the Gilpin family at The Grange, Hockliffe Bedfordshire. I cannot trace Eliza on the 1861 Census.

Eliza married William Deacon on 12th November 1866 at Saint Saviour, Paddington, London.  Eliza was William's second wife, his first being Mary Woodhouse who passed away in 1861. Eliza and William had a son James Henry Deacon in 1870. 

William Deacon was born in 1835 in White Waltham Berkshire to Thomas Deacon, a coachman, and his wife Elizabeth. William first appears on the 1841 Census, aged 4, living with his parents and siblings in Star Lane, Hurley, Berkshire. The family are still living in Star Lane, Hurley in 1851. In 1856 William married his first wife Mary Woodhouse and together they had four children, William, Thomas, Mary Selina, and Emma Esther.  In 1871 William can be found with his second wife Eliza running The Ray Mead Hotel, then called the Ray Tavern, in Ray Mead Road, Maidenhead Berkshire.  1881 find the family still at the hotel in Ray Mead Road, now named The Ray Mead Hotel.

The Ray Mead Hotel, Maidenhead,
Berkshire

William was an active Councillor in Maidenhead and Hurley. 

After Eliza's death in 1886, William married Elizabeth Ann Aylett in 1888 in Colchester.  In 1889 William and Elizabeth moved to The East Arms Hotel in Hurley Berkshire, three years before William's death, they can be found there on the 1891 census.

Advertisement Card for the East Arms Hotel
Hurley, Berkshire

William was to pass away on 10th September 1894, the Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 12th September 1894:

" OBITUARY —We regret to announce the death of Mr. William Deacon, landlord of the East Arms, Hurley, who expired on Monday morning last, after a short illness, at the comparatively early age of 59. best part of Mr. Deacon's life was spent in Maidenhead and its vicinity. He was landlord for many years of the Ray Mead Hotel, which he conducted with much success and left to the great regret of his numerous visitors and riverside folk generally. Mr. Deacon took a keen interest in local affairs. He was for a considerable period chairman of the Licensed Victuallers' Protection Society, and served for several years as a member of the Town Council. He was an amiable and generous man, and was greatly respected by a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. The funeral will take place at 2.30, at St. Luke's Church, Maidenhead, on Friday."

The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on William's funeral at St Lukes Church, Maidenhead, on 19th September 1894:

"FUNERAL OF THE LATE Ma. WILLIAM DEACON. —The remains of the late Mr. William Deacon, of Hurley, were interred in Bt. Luke's churchyard, Maidenhead. on Friday last. The coffin was conveyed in an elegant funeral car by road from Hurley, and arrived at St. Luke's church shortly after 2.30, and by this time a large number of residents. including most of the Licensed Victuallers of this town, had congregated outside the church—amongst them, 

Mears. J. Meeks, J. Gilroy. W. A. Thompson, J. Lepper, W. Hall, A. L. Jefferies. E. Worster (Cookham), W. Colliass', J. Brant, East, E. Clout, Sargent (Taplow), G. Tubb, T. Nash, J. H. Barford, J. I. Moth, H. Stevens, J. Perry, R. Langton, Moon (Marlow), and Howard and Mrs. L. Wilder and Mrs. Aldridge. 

The mourners were the widow, Mr. T. Deacon (son), Mrs. Vandyke (daughter), Mr. J. H. Deacon (son), Mrs. Robertson, Mrs. Walker. Miss P. Deacon and Miss S. Deacon (sisters), Mrs. H. Woodhouse and Miss Emson (daughters). 

The service, both in the church and at the graveside, was impressively performed by the Vicar of St. Luke's (Rev. M. G. J. Mears). The coffin was completely hidden by a fine collection of wreaths, etc. It was of polished elm, and the brass plate bore the following inscription :

"William Deacon. died 10th September, 1894, aged 59 years." 

The following amongst others sent wreaths and crosses:—The widow and family, Mr. and Mrs. Lamb, Mr. and Mrs. Robertson, members of the Licensed Victuallers' Association, members of the Grenfell Lodge R.A.0.B., Mr. and Mrs. Seymour, of Wargrave, Mr. and Mrs. Max Fahrmbacher, Mr. and Mrs. H. Woodhouse, Mr. and Mrs. J. Bishop, Mr. and Mrs. C. B. Scott (Langley), Mr. and Mrs. George Stevens. Mr. and Mrs. Rose, sen., Mr. and Mrs. Clifton (Marlow), Mr. and Mrs. Sargent (Taplow), Mr. and Mrs. Mackie, and friends from Hurley Lock. The funeral arrangements were entrusted to Mr. J. C. Webber, High-street, Maidenhead."

On 29th September 1894 Elizabeth was granted on hold on the license of the East Arms Hotel in Hurley. Elizabeth continued to run the East Arms Hotel after her husband's death. She was to pass away in 1917 in Wycombe, Buckinghamshire