Second World War Commonwealth War Grave - Leading Aircraftman Frank Manders, Royal Air Force - Warwick Balloon Squadron

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".
 

Frank, known as Frankie, Manders was born on 13th June 1914 in Farnham, Surrey (his age on his gravestone is believed to be incorrect).  On 19th March 1940 at he married Beryl Cox, nee Rose at St Michael's Church in Camberley Surrey.

Frank was a professional footballer, playing for Norwich City, Crystal Palace, and Maidenhead Football Club.

Leading Aircraftman
Frank Manders

 

After the outbreak of war Frank enlisted with the Royal Auxiliary Air Force with the 911 County of Warwick Balloon Squadron. 

 

The Balloon Command, set up on 1st November 1938, was responsible for maintaining the barrage balloon defence system throughout the British Isles.  Large balloons, some containing explosives were tethered around key targets, such as industrial areas, ports and harbours to protect them from dive bombers, forcing them to fly above the balloons into the concentrated anti-aircraft fire. 

 

 

Barrage Balloons over London

Frank was to die under tragic circumstances, his body was found on 18th March 1942 in Powell's Pool, Sutton Park, Sutton Coldfield. An inquest was held into his death, The Evening Dispatch reported on Monday 23rd March 1942:

"Sutton Suicide of Football-Airman Worried By Illness.

A professional footballer, serving in the RA.F., who had always been a clean man, contracted scabies, and that so worried him that his mind became unhinged.

This was the comment of the Coroner Mr. C. W. Iliffe at an inquest at Sutton Coldfield on L.A.C., Frank Manders, aged 27, whose body was found in Powell's Pool. A verdict of "suicide while the mind was unbalanced" was returned. It was stated that Manders became so depressed about the scabies that he walked into a police station in Birmingham and intimated that he was going to commit suicide. In consequence he was sent to a hospital, where he could be under observation.

Pool Dragged

On the afternoon of 17th March, the aircraftman visited the Sutton Municipal Golf-house in Monmouth Drive, Boldmere, and borrowed a bag of clubs to play a few holes. As he had not returned by 7.30 p.m., an employee at the club-house telephoned the hospital and ascertained that he was not there. The next morning on a boggy portion of Powell's Pool a bag of golf clubs was found. Dragging operations commenced and the body of the aircraftman was found in about three feet of water 50ft from the bank."

Frank Manders was laid to rest at All saint's Maidenhead Cemetery.

Elizabeth Grubb - Laundress

 

 

 

Taphophilia is a passion for and enjoyment of cemeteries.

 

 

Monument to Elizabeth Grubb, All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

 

"Sacred to the memory of Elizabeth Grubb who died Sept 10th 1863 aged 83 years - He that spared not his own son.  But delivered him up for us all. How shall he not with him also freely give us all things-"

 

 

Elizabeth Grubb was born Elizabeth Miles in 1780 in Heckfield Hampshire, to William Miles and his wife Prudence Stone.

 

Sometime between 1808 and 1811 Elizabeth married John Grubb in Bray, Berkshire.  Together they had five children, Sarah Ann born in 1811, Elizabeth born in 1814, William born in 1817, Mary born in 1819 and Hannah born in 1821.  Sadly John died in 1833.

 

Widowed Elizabeth and her children William and Hannah can be found on the 1851 Census living in Boyne Hill, Maidenhead.  Elizabeth is a laundress, along with Hannah while William is a mason's labourer.

 

I am unable to find any trace of Elizabeth or her children on the 1871 Census

 

Elizabeth was to pass away in 1863.

 

 



Spinster Sisters - Bridget Higgs and Augusta Higgs, Ladies of Means.

 

Monument to Bridget Higgs and Augusta Higgs, All Saints' Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

"Sacred to the memory of

Bridget Higgs

Born March 14th 1821

Died December 17th 1883

The souls of the righteous are in the hand of God

Also of her sister

Augusta Higgs

Died May 9th 1904."

 

 

Bridget and her elder sister Augusta were born in Hockliffe, Bedfordshire on 14th March 1821, and 1819 to Harvey Higgs, and his wife Mary Ann Fogg.  

It seems that the Higgs family were well to do, as throughout the census returns Bridget and Augusta's occupations are listed as fundholders, living off interest from investments, dividends and mortgages. 

Bridget and Augusta can be found on the 1841 Census, aged 20 and 23, living with their widowed mother Mary Ann, living at Bath Road, Northwood, Hampshire.

1851 finds the sisters living at Elizabeth Wharram's Lodging House at 6 Portland Place, Torquay, Devon. Living with them at the time is their elder sister Elizabeth Higgs.

By 1861 the sisters had moved to St Marychurch, Church Road, Torquay, Devon. Living with them at the time is their cook, Elizabeth Train, and housemaid, Jane H Landen.

The 1871 Census finds Bridget and Augusta living in Boyne Hill, Maidenhead, Berkshire, along with Elizabeth Train, and Jane H Landen. They can be found there on the 1881 Census as well, along with Elizabeth and Jane. Both sisters remained spinsters, never marrying, and lived together until death separated them. Bridget was to pass away on 17th November 1883. On 29th December 1883 the Berkshire Chronicle carried the following announcement: 

"Deaths

 

Higgs- On the 17th ult., at Boyne Hill Maidenhead, Bridget, daughter of the late Hervey Higgs, Reading Berkshire."

Elizabeth Train and Jane H Landen can be found on the 1891 Census, living and working in the home of Robert A Ward, solicitor, at Riseby Cottage, Maidenhead. However, I have been unable to locate Augusta on the same Census.

After Bridget's death, Augusta moved to Hillholme, 50 Bath Road, Maidenhead, Berkshire, where she can be found living on the 1901 Census, along with her cook Emily Bartlett, and housemaid Rosetta Willis. August was to pass away on 9th May 1904 aged 85. On 11th May 1904 the Maidenhead Advertiser reported:

"Obituary - Two cases of sudden death occurred in Maidenhead on Monday, the deceased in each case being a lady. Miss Augusta Higgs, of "Hillholme," Bath-road, passed away at her residence. She had been in her usual health and her sudden demise, from heart affection, caused much surprise. Miss Higgs was an old and much-esteemed resident, and had lived in the Boyne-hill district for many years. She was of a kindly, generous disposition and will be greatly missed in the All Saints' Parish. she was the last surviving daughter of Harvey Higgs."

 

 

 



Mary Ann Bissley and Her Husband Victor Robert Bissley of All Saints' Avenue, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

 

 

 

Monument to Mary Ann and Victor Robert Bissley, All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill Maidenhead.

 

 

"In memory of Mary Ann Bissley died Oct 2nd 1964 aged 47 years.  Also her husband Victor Robert died Nov 2nd 1968 Aged 71 years."

 

Mary Ann was born Mary Ann Belson on 12th February 1917, to George William Belson, a Traction Engine Driver, and his wife Florence Flora Chilton in Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

In 1947 Mary Ann married Victor Robert Bissley, 20 years her senior. 

 

 

Victor Robert Bissley was born on 16th May 1897, to Frank Bissley, a general builder, and his wife Elizabeth Beaumont, in Maidenhead, Berkshire.

 

In 1901, four-year-old Victor is living with his parents and elder siblings at 2 All Saints Avenue, Maidenhead.  He is still there ten years later in 1911, where he is listed as a schoolboy.

   

In the December of 1915 Victor enlisted with the Royal Engineers.  At that time, he was working as a Great Western Railway clerk.  During his service Victor suffered greatly with inflamed connective tissue in his feet, due to the amount of marching, and the poor weather conditions in the trenches.  Victor was admitted several times to Eastbourne Military Hospital in Sussex.  Eventually Victor had to undergo an operation on his foot to extract a toenail.

 

Victor survived the war and was discharged from the Royal Engineers on 25th October 1919

On the 1939 England and Wales Register Victor can be found lining at 74 All Saints Avenue, Maidenhead Berkshire, with his older brother John Gordon Bissley. Mary Ann can be found living at 3 Knowl Hill Estate, Wokingham, Berkshire, with her widowed mother Florence and her siblings.

 

Sadly, Mary Ann was to pass away on 2nd October 1964 at the young age of 47. The Maidenhead Advertiser carried the following announcement on 9th October 1964:

"Bissley- On October 2, 1964. Mary Ann Bissley, dearly loved wife of Victor Robert Bissley of 24 All Saints' Avenue, Maidenhead, aged 47."

Victor Rober Bissley was to pass away on 2nd November 1968 at the age of 71.

 



First World War Commonwealth War Grave - Horace James Wise

War grave of Private Horace J Wise.
All Saint's Cemetery, Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

 

 

Horace James Wise was born in 1891 to Alfred Wise, a bricklayer, and his wife Maria Woodward, a sweet shop owner.

Horace attended the local Wesleyan Sunday school as a child and was mentioned in a report of the Anniversary Celebration commending his singing. Horace also played to the town's Football Club, The Maidenhead Magpies. 

 

On the 1901 Census, 9 year old Horace can be found living at 18 Moffatt Street (which now no longer exists), Maidenhead Berkshire, along with his elder brother George and younger sister Elizabeth.

 

1911 finds Horace, now a warehouse porter, working for Messers J and R Morley and living at 18 Charterhouse Street, London.

 

Horace first enlisted with the Royal Berkshire Regiment but was declared as unfit for service on 8th November 1915.  He later enlisted with the 184th Machine Gun Corps on 11th October 1916.  On 16th February 1917 Horace arrived at the Field Billet.  On 10th April Horace was deprived of 6 days' pay for losing by neglect his rations.  He was in trouble again on 22nd May for being absent from the Billet between 21:00 and 21:20, for this he was deprived 2 days' pay.

 

On 27th August 1917 Horace was wounded in action, he received a gunshot wound to his left buttock as well as shrapnel wounds to his back.  He was immediately transferred to Grantham Military Hospital in Sunderland where his wounds were cleaned and he underwent a Laparotomy (an exploratory operation on the abdomen), which found that the wounds had not penetrated his bowels.

 

Horace never returned to fight at the front, on 20th February 1919 he became unwell and was again admitted to the Grantham Military Hospital on 25th February and was found to be suffering from Influenza and Bronchial Pneumonia, sadly despite all efforts to save him, Horace died at 5:30am on 27th February 1919.

 

He left behind his Father Alfred, mother Maria, and siblings George, and Elizabeth. After his death, on 8th December 1919 his father Alfred wrote enquiring as to what became of his son's brand-new Camden boots. It is unclear if the boots were returned to his family.

 

 



Isabella McGregor and Her Young Daughter Isabel of The Star Inn, Broadway, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

 

 

 

Monument to Isabella and Isabel Mary McGregor, All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

 

 

"In loving remembrance of Isabella.  Beloved wife of Edward James McGregor who died Nov 17th 1884 aged 30 years.  Also Isabel Mary daughter of the above who died May 17th 1881 aged 3 years. - Unto Thee O Lord do I lift up my soul."

Isabella McGregor was born Isabella Shepherdson on 8th November 1854, to William Shepherdson, a butcher, and his wife Isabella Grant in Kingsland, Middlesex.

 

I cannot locate Isabella on the 1861 Census, however, on the 1871 Census, Isabella, aged 16, can be found living at her uncle John Grant's house, 29 De Lune Street, Lambeth, Surrey, with her widowed mother and her niece, Clara Stevens. Isabella's occupation is listed as a dressmaker.

  

On 6th September 1877 at ST Saviours Church, Paddington, London, Isabella married Edward James McGregor, whose profession was given as simply Gentleman.  Their daughter Isabel Mary was born in 1879, closely followed by a son Edward Charles in 1880, Reginald in 1882 and Archie William in 1883.

On 8th September 1879 the license of The Star Inn was transferred from James West to Edward McGregor.

 

On the 1881 Census the family can be found at The Star Inn, 23 Broad Street, Maidenhead. Sadly, little than a month after the Census was taken Isabel Mary passed away on 17th May 1881 at the age of 3. Isabella was to pass away on 17th November 1884.  

 

On 16th July 1887 Edward was remarried to Margaret Bertha Burr at St Luke's Church, Tavistock Road, Paddington, London. On the 1891 Census Edward and Margaret, along with Edwards sons from his marriage to Isabella and his son Hubert with Maragret, living at and running the Admiral Mann, 9 Hargrave Place, Kentish Town, London.

Admiral Mann c1870



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Of your charity pray for the soul of

Emily Margaret Ward

Fell asleep Jan 1864

Jesu Mercy

All Saints Churchyard, Boyne Hill Maidenhead.

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James Meeks, Landlord of the Greyhound Inn, King Street, Maidenhead, Berkshire - A Colourful Life Lived

 

 

 

Monument to James Meeks, Elizabeth Meeks, and William Frederick Carter, All Saints Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

 

 

"In loving memory of James Meeks who died April 25th 1907 aged 64 years.  Also of Elizabeth Meeks daughter of the above who died Nov. 8th 1889 aged 23 years - Rest In Peace - also of  William Frederick Carter who passed away June 17th 1932 aged 64 years - Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord for they rest from their labours. - '

 

 

James William Leigh Meeks was born in 1842 in Westerham, Kent to Caroline Meeks.  There was no father's name recorded on the baptism record. On 17th October 1846 Caroline married Edward Stone, and agricultural labourer, in Westerham, Kent.

James first appears on the 1851 Census, aged nine, as James Stone, living with his mother, stepfather Edward, and half siblings George, and Ann Stone at London Road, Westerham, Kent.

 

On 25th August 1864 at All Saints Church in Huntingdonshire James Meeks married Elizabeth Favell, daughter of Thomas Favell, and Eliza Ward.  Their first child, a daughter, Elizabeth was born in 1865.  Sadly, his wife Elizabeth was to pass away in 1870, along with their newborn son James.  

On the 1871 Census James and his daughter Elizabeth can be found living at The Greyhound Public House in King Street, Maidenhead, Berkshire.  Living with them is Elizabeth Snr's younger sister Eliza Favell.  Later in the year James was to marry Eliza Favell.  Together they had three children, Annie born in 1872, Phobe Eliza born in 1873 and James born in 1876.  Sadly, Eliza passed away along with baby James in 1876.

On the 8th May 1876, James was a victim of fraud. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 5th July 1876:

"Running Up A Score - John Hughes was charged with having, on the 8th May, by false pretences, at Maidenhead, obtained refreshment with intent to defraud James Meeks.—He pleaded not guilty

Mr Welch prosecuted. Hughes was undefended.—James Meeks said: I recollect the prisoner coming into my house on the day in question. No one was with him when he first entered. He enquired if there was room for a few friends to sit down, and on being that there was they came in. He asked if I had any cold meat. I said I had not. He then asked for bread and cheese, which was supplied him. IHe also had some tea after which I asked him who was going to pay. He said he had plenty of money, as he had received a pension today, and he thereupon pulled out a piece of paper with a stamp on similar to that used by Messrs. Stephen's bank —the same colour. He asked for some more refreshments, but 1 said, "No more till this is paid for." He then went into another room with me and showed me the note. I said. "This is not a £l0 note, it is not a note at all." He replied, "Never mind. go to my wife; she has got a sovereign." I went to the woman he indicated, but she said she knew nothing of him; he had told them that he had received his pension, and would treat them. I then detained him. 

Constable Venables said he was sent for to the Greyhound, being informed of the circumstances said to the prisoner. "If you have a pension pay the landlord." He ultimately took him into custody on the charge. He was very violent, and was with difficulty got to the lock-up. The man now said he was drunk at the time, in proof of which the police-constable ordered a publican not to draw him a pot of beer. As to the note, anyone could see that it was not a real one.—He was sentenced to six weeks' hard labour." 

 

In 1877 James married Esther Elizabeth (known as Elizabeth) Berry, widow of Alexander Scott in Windsor.  In 1881 James, Esther, Annie and Phobe are living at The Greyhound in King Street, Maidenhead along with James and Esther's children, Arthur born in 1878, and Florence born in 1880.  Elizabeth Meeks Jnr is now living with her uncle and aunt Thomas and Annie Webb at 29 Pullcross Street, Lambeth London.  Sadly Elizabeth was to pass away aged only 23 years in 1886.

 

James and Esther begun to experience some marital strife after the 1881 Census was taken. In 1890 James and Esther were granted a judicial separation. The Berkshire Chronical reported on the 31st May 1890:

"LOCAL DIVORCE CASE Divorce Division. (Before Justice Butt). MEEKS V. MEEKs, JONES, AND ANDREWS. This was petition of the husband, landlord of the Greyhound Inn, Maidenhead, for a divorce by reason of the alleged adultery of his wife with the two co-respondents. Answers were filed denying the charge, and the respondent pleaded cruelty, she praying for judicial separation. 

Mr H. B. Deane appeared for the petitioner. Mr Crawford for the respondent, Mr Waiters for Jones, and Mr Middleton for Andrews. James Meeks, the petitioner, married respondent in 1877 Windsor, that time he was a widower, and had been twice previously married, while she was a widow. The marriage was stated have been a happy one until three years ago, when the respondent took to drink, and was frequently away from home. On March 6. 1888. she returned home about closing time, and, after altercation with her husband, she left the house. Samuel Jones, one of the co-respondents, a foreman fitter, volunteered to go and look for her, but he did not return. Some time afterwards the petitioner, accompanied by one of his customers, went to Jones' house and knocked at the door. According to the petitioner’s case, a dog pulled aside the blind, and then Jones and the respondent were seen together under suspicious circumstances. After time Jones came to the door, and it was admitted that Mrs Meeks was there, she refusing to return with her husband. In July of that year the petitioner late night saw his wife go into the bouse of the second co-respondent, Henry Andrews, a butcher, of Maidenhead, and it was alleged that they then misconducted themselves. The defence was a total denial of the charge on the part of the accused parties. In his evidence the correspondent Jones said that she stayed at his bouse she had other people’s, and be stated that she was driven to intemperance her husband's conduct. In support of the charge of cruelty a number of witnesses were called, they generally deposing to having seen her being struck the petitioner, and that they had observed marks of bruises upon her. Mr Justice Butt camo to the conclusion that the charges of adultery were not established. He further held that the petitioner was guilty of cruelty, therefore the respondent was granted a judicial separation, with costs."

 

The Greyhound Inn, King Street, Maidenhead.

Thee 1891 Census finds James, his children from his marriage to Eliza Favell, as well as Phobe, Arthur, and Clara born in 1881, living at The Greyhound in King Street.  Esther had returned to live with her mother Esther Berry, her son from her first marriage, William A Scott, and her younger sister Emily, at The Globe Public House, Oxford Road, Clewer, New Windsor. 

 

Esther struggled with a drinking problem, on the 20th December 1890 she was charged with being drunk and incapable outside the Globe Public House in Oxford Street, and again on 10th September 1891, she had previously been before the bench on six charges of being 'hopelessly drunk.'  On Thursday 5th December 1895 James Meeks started divorce proceeding against Esther siting an affair she had with a coal hauler named Bowley.  This affair had apparently resulted in the birth of a stillborn child in the March of 1891.  At the time of the hearing Esther was residing at Berkshire County Lunatic Asylum in Cholsey, later renamed Moulsford Asylum and then Fairmile Hospital.

 

It seems that James Meeks had a bit of a temper on him as in 1894 he was bound over to the sum of £10 to keep the peace for six months after assaulting a fellow publican.  The Slough, Windsor and Eton Observer reports -

 

'Assaulted at his hotel - James Meeks, landlord of The Greyhound, King Street, was charged with having, on November the 19th, assaulted William Stanley.  He pleaded, not guilty.

 

The complainant, who lives at the Bell Hotel, and has done so for the past two years, stated that on the 19th, when standing at The Bell Hotel Bar, talking to Miss Wheeler, the barmaid, at just before closing time, the defendant came into the house and "and all at once he received a smack on the mouth," and looking round saw Mr. Meeks going out of the door.'

 

It seems the two of them had had a falling out over a horse previously, causing William to refuse to use The Greyhound Public House.  Something James took offence at.

 

'Mr. Meeks had a grievance against him, and wanted to cause a row.  Complainant, continuing, said that the reason of the little grievance Mr. Meeks had against him was that he did not use his house.  He did not go there because they had a row over a horse.  He and some friends wanted to go to Henley and the horse the defendant sent him was not, he considered, fit to do the journey, and he sent it back.'

 

 

In 1901 James Meeks is continuing to reside in and run The Greyhound in King Street, along with his daughter Florence Meeks.

 

Esther E Meeks is listed as being a patient of Berkshire County Lunatic Asylum in Cholsey on the 1901 Census.  Her marital status is given as divorced.  In 1911 Esther has returned to using the name Scott and is residing in the Somerset and Bath Lunatic Asylum.  She was to later pass away in 1927.

 

James was again in the local paper on 5th May 1906, this time for taking an unexpected dip in the River Thames.  The Slough, Eton and Windsor Observer reported -

 

'Maidenhead Hotel Keeper In The Thames. - On Friday last, Mr.James Meeks, of The Greyhound, King Street, had an impromptu immersion in the Thames, and but for the fact that he is a good swimmer he might have lost his life.  It appears that he drove to Monkey Island with some friends and successfully punted across to the island, re-crossing to fetch a lady who was waiting to get on to the island.  He landed the lady safely, and then, from the stern of the punt, proceeded to place the pole in the water to put the punt into position.  The Thames, however, had been dredged recently at the spot, and Mr. Meeks, failing to the bottom with the pole, pitched into something like 15 to 16 feet of water.  Being a good swimmer he soon reached terra firma, and as his conveyance was waiting he re-crossed the water and drove home as quickly as possible.  Mr. Meeks is none the worse for his experience, and desires to thank his many friends who so kindly took such an interest in his welfare when the mishap became known.'

 

In the April of 1907, not long before the death of James, the license of The Greyhound Inn was transferred to his son Arthur Meeks. James was to pass away on the 25th April 1907, aged 64. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 1st May 1907:

"DEATH OF MR. JAMES MEEKS. We much regret to have to record the death, on Thursday morning last, of Mr. James Meeks, an old and respected resident. Mr. Meeks had been in failing health for some time, and his death was not altogether unexpected. He was the first tenant of the Greyhound inn, King-street, about 35 years ago, and only this year transferred the license to his son. The R.A.O.B. (Grenfell Lodge) was established at this house, and the deceased was a prominent member of the Order, and was also a member of the " Pride of Maidenhead " lodge of Oddfellows (G. U.), of which he was the treasurer for many years. Until the members purchased the hall in which they now meet, their lodgeroom was at the "Greyhound." Mr. Meeks was for a few years a member of the Maidenhead Town Council, and by the Fire Brigade was designated "Master of the Horse," he having for many years horsed the engine for fires and practices. The deceased was an enthusiastic and capable gardener, and his well-kept garden at Braywick was on one occasion visited by her Majesty the Queen, who was the temporary guest of the Earl and Countess of Gosford, who were then renting Braywick Grove. Mr. Meeks was generous to a fault, and he will be missed by many who found in him a sympathising and helpful friend. The extent of his generosity will never be known, for he did good by stealth, and those who benefitted by his kindly thought cover a very wide area. His death was heard of with much regret throughout the town and district. 

The Funeral

The funeral took place on Monday afternoon, the committal of the remains to the grave being witnessed by nearly a thousand persons. The cortege left the residence of the deceased, 9, East-road, High Town-road at 2 o'clock, and, proceeded by a large muster of the Maidenhead Volunteer Brigade in uniform, with the members of various Orders with which the deceased was connected, proceeded via King-street and Castle-hill to All Saints' Church, where the internment too place. The procession was a long and imposing one, and its progress was watched by a large number of persons. Most of the tradesmen and others on the line of route erected shutters or lowered blinds out of respect for the deceased. A short service was held inside the church, conducted by the Rev. H. Newton, of Boyn Garth, and then the mournful procession wended its way to the grave-side, where, amid many signs of sorrow, the remains were lowered to their last resting-place. The coffin was of polished Canadian elm, with solid brass fittings, and bore the following inscription:-

"James Meeks

Died 25th April 1907

Aged 64 years"

 

There was a large attendance of members of the Maidenhead Licensed Victuallers' Association, of which the deceased was for many years a prominent member, and also Chairman."  

Family Connections: Daughters Pheobe Eliza Carter and Annie Taylor

First World War Commonwealth War Grave - Private George Eaton, Royal Berkshire Regiment - Accidental Death, Struck by Train.

War Grave of Private George Eaton.
All Saint's Cemetery, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

George Eaton was born in 1859 in Knowl Hill, Berkshire to Thomas, an agricultural labourer and his wife Sarah Herbert.

George first appears on the 1861 Census aged 2, living with his parents and siblings in Hurley Berkshire. Ten years later in 1871 George and his family are still living in Hurley, at 8 Lady Place, Ashley Hill.  Joining the family is George's aunt Mary Ann Herbert, who is listed as servant domestic (invalid).  In 1881 George is working with his father and elder siblings as an agricultural labourer.

In 1884 George married Harriet Pickett.  Their first child, a daughter Alice was born in 1885, closely followed by Ann in 1887.  Their first son George William was born in 1889.

In 1891 the small family can be found living at 6 Long Acre, Maidenhead, Berkshire, where George is now a bricklaying labourer.  By 1901 George and his family had moved to Tyrells Buildings in Maidenhead, where George is listed as a ground works labourer.  Catherine aged 9, Thomas aged 6, Henry Benjamin aged 4 and John aged 1 have joined the family.  George and Harriet's youngest child Robert was born in 1904.

It seems however that George was plagued with depression, which at one point caused him to attempt to take his own life, for which he served a week's imprisonment at Reading Gaol.  The Slough Windsor and Eton Observer reports on 15th September 1906 -

"The Case Of Attempted Suicide

At the Maidenhead Borough Police-court on Friday George Eaton, a resident, was charged on remand with having cut and wounded himself with a razor, intending to kill and murder himself.

The Magistrates' Clerk explained to the Bench that the Governor of Reading Gaol had written to the effect that he was of the opinion the suicidal attempt was a feint, and that there were no signs of insanity in regard to the prisoner.

Police-constable Hay said that he was stationed at Maidenhead.  On the 30th August he had received information that the prisoner had cut his throat.  In company with Police-constable Barr he went to Denmark-street and found that the prisoner had gone out.  He went in search of the prisoner and found him in a field on the other side of the Furze Platt, on the way to Cookham.  He asked him what he was doing and he said, "Nothing."  He noticed a razor sticking out of his pocket; it was in the condition in which it now was (with blood upon it).  Prisoner's throat was covered in blood.  He examined the prisoner's throat, but found no serious cut.  He eventually got him into the road, when he "turned up rough" and said he wanted to go on to the Thicket to finish the job.  They were obliged to handcuff the prisoner; they had no trouble with him after that.  Eaton said several times on the way to the station that he would "finish it off" some time, but he was in a dazed condition, and did not seem to know what he was doing.

Mr Cox:  Was he sober?- Yes, sir.
Had he been drinking
No, I think not, sir.  He was in a dazed state.

The Magistrates' Clerk (to the prisoner) What did you do this for?
Prisoner:  I do not know anything about it; I have been ill.
When you came to your senses did you know what you had done?- No.

Mrs. Eaton, mother of the prisoner, told the magistrates that on Monday when her son came home she said that he was ill, and he looked it.  He was very much depressed.  She advised him to see Dr. Montgomery.

The Magistrates' Clerk:  Do you think he will do this kind of thing again?
Mrs. Eaton:  No, sir.  He thought he was going to lose his father and it upset him.  He looked so funny when he came to me on the Monday that I thought he was "going off" like some other members of the family.  He has never threatened his wife; it was only what people had said about him.

Prisoner's wife, a most respectably-dressed woman, was in court with a baby in her arms, but was not called.

The Mayor (to Mrs. Eaton sen.):  After what you say, if you will keep an eye on your son the magistrates are disposed to dismiss the case.
Mrs. Eaton:  Thank you, sir.

Prisoner afterwards left with his wife and mother."



In 1911 the family had moved to 78 Reform Road where George is listed as a domestic gardener. 

Sometime after the outbreak of World War One, George enlisted with The Royal Berkshire Regiment.  I have been unable to locate any War Records for George.

Before his death George was treated at Netley Military Hospital in Hampshire.  Netley Hospital boasted the first purpose built military asylum where men suffering from severe psychosis and Shell Shock were treated.

On the 26th July 1915 George was accidentally killed after being struck by a train at Winchester Station in Hampshire.  On Saturday 31st July the Hampshire Advertiser reported:

"An inquest was held on Wednesday at Winchester Hospital on the body of George Eaton, aged 54, of 61, Reform-road, Maidenhead, a private. Deceased had gone on leave on Saturday to Monday, on which day he was returning from Maidenhead to Southampton. He was seen off at Reading Station by his son and then appeared to be in good health and spirits. He alighted from the train at Winchester, and met his death when attempting to board the train when in motion. He took hold of the door of one of the compartments, but his left foot slipped off the footboard, and he fell beneath the platform and train. Three coaches passed over him, but the train was pulled up. The unfortunate man was picked up and taken to the hospital, but died on the way. His injuries consisted of a compound fracture to the thigh and left arm, a crushed left hand, four fractured ribs, a broken shoulder, and minor injuries. The deceased had a good character in his regiment.

The jury returned a verdict of "Accidental Death," and gave their fees to the widow.  The deceased was identified by his son, Private H. B. Eaton, who returned home wounded from the front. He has a brother in the trenches. The Jury and Coroner expressed sympathy with the relatives, as did also an officer from the deceased's regiment." 

On the 4th August 1915 the Maidenhead Advertiser reported about the accident in greater detail:

"Death Of A Maidenhead Solider At Winchester Station.

When Boarding A Moving Train.

On Wednesday an inquest was held at The Royal Hants County Hospital, Winchester, concerning the death of a Maidenhead solider - Pte George, of 61, Reform-road, serving in the 4th. Battalion Royal Berks Regiment who died on the pervious Monday from injuries received through being crushed by a train. 

2nd Lieut. J. L, Martin, of the 4th Royal Berks Regiment (who in private life is a solicitor and Coroner for Reading) appeared on behalf of the Regiment. 

Pte. Henry Benjamin Eaton, of the 1sr Battalion Royal Berks Regiment (home from the Front wounded) identified the deceased as his father, aged 54, a private in the 4th Batt. Royal Berks Regt. He was a Reservist before he rejoined and was a gardener by occupation. Deceased was stationed at a Rest Camp, Southampton. He last saw his father alive on Monday evening at Reading Station, when he was returning to Southampton after being on leave from Saturday. He was then in good health and spirits. Witness and his sister went with the deceased to Reading and he had a friend with him.

Pte Thomas Winter, of The Kings Royal Rifles, Winchester, stated that he was on police duty at the station, and saw the 5.55 from London arrive. He also saw it start, and as it was moving deceased ran along the platform from the lavatory. He took hold of the handle of the compartment with his hand, and placed his left foot on the footboard. His foot slipped and the man released his hold, falling between the train and the platform. about three coached passed over him. The train was stopped and witness helped to get the deceased from the line to the platform. He was in a crouching position near the wall and exclaimed - "Oh! My poor arm." His left hand lying across the metals, was very badly injured. He did not see the deceased leave the train and only saw him trying to join it.

The Coroner: " There was no suggestion that there was anything improper?"
Lieut Martin: "No."

The son said that his father had with him one of the men with whom he slept in camp who was going back with him. His father was quite sober.

The Coroner: "There was no suggestion that he was otherwise."
Lieut Martin: "He bore a very good character in the Army."

A. Foster, a porter, stated he did not see the accident, but he gave the signal for the train to start and stop.

PC Gattrill said that he obtained a stretcher and took the deceased to hospital, but he was found dead on arrival. Deceased had a "pass" from Saturday to Monday in his possession. 

Dr. Montague Wallace, house surgeon at the Hospital, said that the deceased was dead when brought in. The post-mortem examination showed that the deceased had a fractured left thigh, fractured left arm and forearm, left hand crushed, four ribs on the left side fractured, left shoulder broken, and left lung injured. all internal organs and the brain were healthy. Death was due to shock from the injuries received."

Such a tragic end to poor George's life.

Harriet Gurney and her husband Joseph Morten Gurney of Pinkney's Farm, and Later Woodley Farm House, Maidenhead Thicket

Monument to Harriet and Joseph Morten Gurney, St James the Less Churchyard, Stubbings Berkshire.

"Sacred to the memory of Harriet the wife of Joseph Morten Gurney who died February 8th 1882 aged 77 years.  Also of Joseph Morten Gurney who died September 17th 1895 aged 88 years - Lord Remember Me."

Joseph Morten Gurney was born in 1807 to Thomas Gurney, near St Albans, Hertfordshire.  I have been unable to locate Joseph on the 1841 Census. On March 8th 1844, Joseph marries Harriet Wright at Saint John the Evangelist Church, Waterloo Road, Lambeth, London. Harriet Gurney was born Harriet Wright in 1804 to John Wright, a farmer, in Redhill, Surrey. 

Baptism records show that Joseph and Harriet had at least one son called William Parker, who died in infancy and one daughter called Mary Elizabeth.

The 1851 Census finds Joseph, Harriet and young Mary living in Frogmore Street, Tring, Hertfordshire. Joseph's occupation is listed as a farmer of 139 acres, employing 8 labourers. Living with them is their cook, Ann Ayres, and nursemaid, Fanny Buckmaster.

On the 1861 Census, Joseph, Harriet and Mary are living and working at Pinkney's Farm in Pinkney's Green, Maidenhead, Berkshire.  Joseph is a farmer of 367 acres employing 11 men, and 4 boys.  On 4th April 1866 their only surviving child Mary marries chemist Charles Henry Thompson and moves to Castle Hill in Maidenhead.  The Bucks Herald carried the following announcement on 14th April 1866:

"Thompson—Gurney.—On the 5th inst., at the District Church, Cookham Dean, Charles Henry, only surviving son of Benjamin Thompson, of Huddersfield, to Mary Elizabeth, only daughter of Joseph Morten Gurney, of Pinkneys, Maidenhead."

1871, Joseph and Harriet are still farming Pinkney' Farm.  This time only 345 acres, employing 12 men, 3 boys and 2 women.

In 1881, a year before Harriets death, both Joseph and Harriet are living at Woodley Farm House, Maidenhead Thicket, where Joseph's occupation is listed as a retired farmer.  

Harriet was to pass away on 8th February aged 77. The Reading Mercury carried the following announcement on 18th February 1882:

"Gurney- On the 8th inst., at Woolley Farm House, Maidenhead Thicket, Harriett, the wife of Joseph Morten Gurney, her 78th year."

1891 sees the widowed Joseph still living at Woodley Farm House.  Joseph passed away on 17th September 1895 aged 88. The Reading Mercury reported on 21st September 1895:

"Death of Old Residents.—We have to announce the death of Mr. Joseph Morten Gurney, of Woodley Farm, which occurred on Tuesday morning. Mr. Gurney, who was in his 89th year, had been ailing for some time, and the end was not altogether unexpected. Mr. Gurney was a native of Hertfordshire, and was educated at St. Albans, but spent far the greater part of his life in this district, first at Pinkney's Farm, and latterly at Woolley Farm. He had, however, for several years given up farming. He was great number of years a Guardian of the Poor in the Cookham Union Board, and his work there won golden opinions, as he did in everything he undertook."

The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on the funeral on 25th September 1895:

"FUNERAL OF THE LATE MR. JOSEPH MORTEN GURNEY. 

Our last issue contained an anno the death, is his 89th year, of Mr. Joseph Morten Gurney, of Maidenhead Thicket, who had been living in this neighbourhood since 1852. He was born in the reign of George 111., and at times used to enjoy relating to his friend, his recollections of that Monarch, George IV., and William IV., as well as of the sensation caused by the news of the battle of Waterloo, and many of the stirring events which have taken place since that time. We understand that Mr. J. M. Gurney was a descendant of Thomas Gurney, the Quaker, and companion of George Fox, and that amongst the papers of the deceased is an interesting statement respecting previous ancestors up to the time of their residence in Normandy in the year 912. Hugh the 2nd was one of the Norman Generals, who, with his son Hugh the 3rd, was present at the battle of Hastings in 1066. Mr. Gurney had a retiring but genial and kind disposition, and was esteemed and loved by those who knew him. He had been ailing for some time, and the end was not unexpected. He was a native of Hertfordshire, and was educated at St. Albans, but spent the greater part of his life in this district. first at Pinkney's Farm, and latterly at Woolley Farm. He had, however, for several years given up farming. He was for a great number of years a Guardian of the Poor at the Cookham Union Board, and rendered able and zealous assistance in that character. 

The funeral took place on Saturday last, at Stubbings Church, the Vicar (Rev. G. E. Hodges) officiating. The mourners were : Mr. C. H. Thompson, Mr. C. G. Thompson, Mr. James Gurney, Mr. William Gurney, Mr. Lovejoy, Mr. Henry Gurney, and Mr. Smith. Amongst those present we noticed the Rev. T H. Wrenford, Vicar of Littlewick; Rev. H. M. Dyer, Vicar of White Waltham; Mr. Joseph Gardner, Mr. W. Weall, Mr. Walton, &c. The coffin, which was of polished oak, with brass furniture, bore the following inscription:— 

"JOSEPH MORTEN GURNEY, Died September 17th, 1895, Aged 88 years." 

The funeral arrangements were admirably carried out by Mr. J. C. Webber, High-street, Maidenhead."

Cemetery Sunday - Falling Angel

'Falling' Angel at All Saints Maidenhead Cemetery, Maidenhead, Berkshire.

The precarious position of this gravestone is caused by natural ground movements in the grave below.  As the body and casket break down the grave can sink, causing many gravestones and monuments to topple.  At the moment this gravestone is considered safe, once  it becomes unsafe it will be removed from its footings and placed across the grave.  This is to prevent damage to the stone and/or injury to cemetery visitors.


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Helen Irene Collins of Dunorlan Park House and Bisham Grange

Monument to Helen Irene Collins, All Saints Churchyard, Bisham Berkshire.

"Helen Irene Collins.  10th February 1891.  8th October 1966."

 

Helen Irene Collins was born on 10th February 1891 in Chelsea London to Carteret Fitzgerald Collins, a Barrister at law, and his wife Geraldine Lucia Anne Leslie.

Helen seems to have enjoyed a privileged life living at 20 Sloane Square in Chelsea, a very fashionable and affluent area of London.  At one time the family had 13 servants to take care of their every need.  As far as I can tell Helen never entered into employment as an occupation has never been listed for her.  Helen never married.

On the 1939 Register the family had moved to Tunbridge Wells, Kent. At some point before her death Helen moved to Bisham Grange, Temple Lane, Bisham, Berkshire.

Helen passed away on 8th October 1966 in Sussex aged 75 years.  The Reading Evening Post carried the following announcement on 12th October 1966:

"COLLINS. On October 9.[sic]1966, peacefully in her sleep in a nursing home. Helen Irene Collins. of Bisham Grange Marlow. Funeral service at Bisham Parish Church on Friday. October 14, at 2pm. Flowers may be sent to Messrs. Sawyer Funeral Service, 32 West Street. Marlow, Bucks." 

In 1874 Helen's grandfather Brenton Halliburton Collins bought Dunorlan Park in Tunbridge Wells, Kent.  On Brenton's death in 1924, ownership of Dunorlan Park passed to Carteret until his death in 1941 when the house passed to his eldest son Lieutenant Colonel Richard Leslie Halliburton Collins.  Between 1874 and 1941 the estate was opened to the public every winter so that they could skate on the frozen lake. 

Lieutenant Colonel Richard was called out of retirement to fight in the second World War, it was then that the house became vacant and was requisitioned for the war effort.  In the early years it was a billeting station for troops, who according to local tradition, were responsible for destroying the avenue of statues and the figures on the fountain by using them for target practice.  In 1943 the War Damage Commission took up residence and remained there for fourteen years.

In November 1944, the Council purchased Dunorlan Park House, the grounds, including three farms and other various lands from Lieutenant Colonel Richard at a price of £42000.

Another interesting note, Helen's father Carteret had a patent for, Improvements in or relating to dish and like washing machines.

Second World War Private Monument - Ordinary Telegraphist Charles Harry Chamberlain, Royal Navy

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

 

Charles Harry Chamberlain was born on 16th October 1923 in Maidenhead to Charles Richard Chamberlain, a carpenter, and his wife Lilian Charlotte Lock.

 

Sometime after the outbreak of World War II, Charles Harry (known as Harry) enlisted with the Royal Navy and began his training as an Ordinary Telegraphist at the H.M.S Collingwood Training Camp.  Unfortunately, Harry was to die that the tragically young age of 18 on 24th August 1942 from illness.  

 

 

 



Beilby Eric Smith, Bill Broker, of Stubbings House, Stubbings, Berkshire

Monument to Beilby Eric Smith, St James the Less Churchyard, Stubbings Berkshire.

"In loving memory of Beilby Eric Smith died 31st January 1931

Remember what he was with thankful heart.  The bright, the brave, the tender and the true.  remember what he is.  From sin apart present with God yet not apart from you."

Beilby Eric Smith was born on 26th November 1864 in Wilton, London to Eric Carrington Smith, a banker, and his wife Mary Maberly.

Seven-year-old Beilby appears on the 1871 Census living in Knightsbridge, London with his parents and six elder siblings.  In 1881 Beilby can be found being educated and boarding at Eton College in Windsor Berkshire.

In 1887 Beilby marries Elizabeth Mabel Cotton in Etwell Derbyshire. The Derby Daily Telegraph carried the following announcement on 16th March 1887:

"A marriage is arranged between Mr. Beilby Eric Smith, third son Mr. Eric Carrington Smith, of Ashford, Sussex, and Miss Elizabeth Mabel Cotton, third daughter of Mr. Rowland Hugh Cotton, of Etwall Hall, Derbyshire."

1891 finds Beilby and Elizabeth living in Chelsea London where Beilby is listed as a Bill Broker, a money dealer who buys, sells, discounts, or negotiates bills of exchange.  1897 sees the birth of their only child, a son, Dennis Eric Smith.

In 1901 the family are living at 12 Herbert Crescent in Chelsea London, where Beilby is listed as a banking agent.

1911 and the family has moved to Stubbings House, a large manor house in Stubbings Berkshire.

Stubbings House, Stubbings, Berkshire

Beilby was to pass away on the 31st January 1931 in South Africa at the age of 68.  The Mid Sussex Times reported on 10th February 1931:

"DEATH OF MR. B. E. SMITH.— Residents of this district will be sorry to learn of the death, which took place in South Africa on January 30 [sic], of Mr. Beilby Eric Smith, a brother of the late Mr. Lindsay Eric Smith, of Ashfold, who died on Christmas Eve. Mr. Beilby Smith, who was in his sixty-eighth year, commenced his business career in the Derby office of the family bank of Smith, Payne and Smith, of Lombard Street. London, but 1891, together with the late Mr. Charles Ridley Smith, he founded the firm of Smith. St. Aubyn Co., which has for many years been one of the leading private partnerships carrying on business as banking and discount agents. Failing health in recent years had compelled him to winter abroad."

Beilby's body was cremated and his ashes returned to England where he was buried in St James the Less Churchyard in Stubbings Berkshire on 14th April 1931.

The Maidenhead reported on the funeral on the 15th Apri 1931 as follows:

"STUBBINGS

The late Mr. Eric Smith: Funeral Service.

Yesterday (Tuesday) afternoon the memorial service for the late Mr. Beilby Eric Smith, of Stubbings House, was held in the parish church, conducted by the Vicar (the Rev. Dr. J. A. Nairn) and after the service the urn containing the ashes was reverently deposited in the family grave."

Cemetery Sunday - Holly Wreath

I found this beautiful frost covered holly wreath resting against a stone vase at All Saints Maidenhead Cemetery.  It's lovely to think that someone remembers their absent loved ones at Christmas time.  Makes a lovely change from the many abandoned lonely graves.



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Master George Kenneth Vansittart Neale, Heir to Bisham Abbey - Died at Eton College of Appendicitis

Monument to George Kenneth Vansittart Neale, All Saints Churchyard, Bisham Berkshire.

"In loving memory of George Kenneth only son of Henry and Florence Vansittart Neale of Bisham Abbey who died at Eton College October 1st 1904 aged 14 years - O God thou art my God.  Early I will seek thee - Those that seek Me early shall find Me."

George Kenneth Vansittart Neale was born in Marylebone London in 1890 to Sir Henry James Vansittart Neale K.C.B (Knight Commander order of the Bath), a principle clerk in the admiralty, and his wife Florence Eddis.

On the 1891 Census, nine-month-old George can be found living at his Grandmother Frances's home along with his aunt, mother, father and elder sister Phyllis, in Bisham Abbey Estate.




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By 1901, ten-year-old George is a boarding student at Stone House College in St Peter's Kent.

Sadly, just three years after the census was taken, on 1st October 1904, young George was to die after an unsuccessful operation for appendicitis.


The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 12th October 1904:

"BISHAM.

DEATH OF MASTER KENNETH VANSITTART NEALE.— It is with much regret that we record the death of George Kenneth Vansittart Neale, only son of Sir H. J. Vansittart Neale, K.C.8., of Bisham Abbey, who died at Eton College on Tuesday afternoon. The news of the early decease of Master Neale has cast a deep gloom over the village, and both in Bisham and Marlow the very deepest sympathy is felt for Sir Henry and Lady Neale in their terrible bereavement. Mr. George Neale was only 14 years of age. He was entered at Eton a year ago at Radcliffe's house. He quickly made his mark both ill school work and play. He figured in the House football team, and his bright and happy disposition made him very popular with his fellow scholars. His work in the School was so good that he reached the Fifth Form very quickly, and he was regarded by his tutors as one of the most promising scholars at Eton. Mr. Neale returned to Eton for the present term about fortnight ago, apparently in good health. He was suddenly taken ill, and it was found that he was suffering from that dread disease, appendicitis. An operation was decided on, but it was too late to save his life, and he passed away on Tuesday afternoon in the presence of his devoted parents. Mr. George Kenneth Neale was an only son, and was the heir to the historic mansion known as Bisham Abbey, and the large estates which adjoin the ancient Abbey. The funeral took place at Bisham Church on Saturday, amid many manifestations of sorrow and sympathy."


George's parents were so distraught at his sudden loss that they commissioned a marble monument to be carved by George Frederick Morris Harding and placed inside All Saints Church in Bisham, Berkshire.

The Slough, Eton and Windsor Observer reported on the occasion on December 19th 1908 -

"Memorial to an Eton Boy.

The Bishop of Oxford unveiled a memorial in Bisham Church to George Kenneth Vansittart Neale, the only son of Sir Henry James Vansittart Neale K.C.B of Bisham Abbey, who died of appendicitis four years ago at Eton.  The memorial is the work of Mr. Morris Harding, a young sculptor, who is as yet unknown to fame, but who has here given proof of rare talent in the design as well as its execution.  The figure of the boy is seen kneeling on a cushion, his arms folding hands resting on a Pre-Dieu, the whole set in a flamboyant Gothic niche with trefoil arches."

The above picture, copyright of Robert Freidus, is reproduced curtesy of The Victorian Web.

There is also a stained-glass window in Bisham Church dedicated to George.

Second War World Commonwealth War Grave - Private Albert Blay, Cheshire Regiment - Killed in an Air Raid

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old.

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them".

 

 

 

Albert Blay was born on 13th October 1907 in Maidenhead Berkshire to Frederick Blay, a bricklayer and brewery clerk, and his wife Louisa Green.

 

On the 1911 Census, three-year-old Albert is living with his parents and older brother Frederick Archie George Blay at 1 Spencer's Road, Maidenhead Berkshire.

 

In 1931 Albert married Phyllis Ida Burrows in Grantham, Leicestershire

Abert appears on the 1939 Register, living in "Dunromin" Allenby Road, Maidenhead, with his wife Phyllis and their young son John Robert Keith Blay. Albert is working as a brewery clerk for Nicholson & Sons Ltd. Living next door at "Dawn" Allenby Road, is Albert's older brother Frederick George Blay and his sister-in-law Elsie Blay nee Lester. 

 

Sometime after the outbreak of World War II, Albert enlisted with The Cheshire Regiment.  Unfortunately, Albert was to die as a result of war action on 10th May 1941.  The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on Wednesday 14th May 1941:

"Air Raid Victim - Pte. A. R Blay of "Dawn," [sic] Allenby Road, who was serving in the Oxford and Bucks Light Infantry, [sic] was killed by a bomb while on duty during an air raid on a Merseyside town last week. Before joining up he was employed by Nicholson Brewery."

The mistakes in the report were later corrected in Albert's Obituary, publish by the Maidenhead Advertiser on Wednesday 21st May 1941:

"Obituary.

Pte. Albert Blay

Killed in an Air Raid

The internment of Private Albert Blay, of the Cheshire Regiment, whose death through enemy action at a Merseyside town we reported last week, took place at Maidenhead Cemetery on Thursday, the service being conducted by the Rev. Canon C. E. M. Fry M.B.E., R.D.

Before joining the Army Pte. Blay was a travelling representative for Messrs. Nicholson & Sons, L.T.D., brewers, High-street, Maidenhead. He had been employed by the same firm since he left school, and his earlier days was on the clerical staff. A native of Maidenhead he was educated at Alwyn-road School. At one time he was a member of the choir at St Luke's Church, where he was also a server. Private Blay, whose home was at "Dunromin," Allenby-road, Maidenhead, leaves a widow and a six year old son.

Pte. Blay was buried with full military honours. The coffin was covered by the Union Jack, and the Devonshire Regiment provided the firing party and eight bearers. Three volleys were fired over the grave, and the Last Post and Reveille were sounded."

Albert was just 34 years old when he was killed. Phyllis never remarried and moved with her son John to Thanet, Kent, where she was to pass away in the August of 1994.

 

 

 



George Lapper and His Wife Harriet Lapper, Inn Keepers of The Bell, Hurst, Wargrave

Monument to George and Harriet Lapper, All Saints Churchyard, Boyn Hill, Maidenhead Berkshire.

"In loving memory of George Lapper died Jany 21st 1912 aged 73 years,

Also

Harriet Lapper his wife died Sept 4th 1912 aged 72 years. ~ God is our refuge and our strength ~"

George Lapper was born in Kemble Wiltshire in 1838 to William Lapper, an agricultural labourer, and his wife Elizabeth Lewis.

On the 1841 Census, three-year-old George is living in Kemble Wiltshire with his parents and nine siblings.  1851 George is still living with his parents in Kemble but is now listed as an agricultural labourer.  George remains with his family in Kemble until his marriage to Harriet Titchener in 1863.

Harriet Lapper was born Harriet Titchener on 10th May 1840 in Bishopstone Wiltshire to Charles Titchener, an agricultural labourer, and his wife Mary Smith.

Harriet first appears on the 1841 Census, aged one, living with her parents in East Brook, Bishopstone, Wiltshire. On the 1851 Census, Harriet can be found aged ten, living with her parents and four siblings.  Their address is simply given as, near the school, Bishopston, Wiltshire.

In 1861 Harriet is working as a domestic cook for Joseph Smith, a bank manager, and his family at The County Bank (now Lloyds Bank), 14 Castle Street, Cirencester, Gloucestershire.

In 1868 Harriet married Goerge Lapper in Highworth, Wiltshire.

1871, George and Harriet are now living in Duntisbourne Abbots, part of the Cotswolds, Gloucestershire.  They're now running the Old Inn, now known as Five Mile House, as well as raising their children, Sarah aged seven, Emma aged four, and two-year-old John. Boarding with the family are Henry and Ann Hiller, retired publicans.

Old Inn (Five Mile House)
Duntisbourne Abbots

In 1881 the family has moved again, this time to The Bell Inn, High Street, Hurst, Wargrave in Berkshire.  Their eldest child Sarah has since gone into domestic service and is living and working at Highfield House, Bath Road, Reading Berkshire.  George and Harriet have welcomed a daughter, Ann, and a son Arthur to their family.  1891 sees the family still running The Bell Inn in Hurst High Street.  Emma Lapper had left the family to work as a Telegraphist in West Thurrock, Essex.

In 1901 only George and Harriet remain at The Bell Inn.  John married Annie Louisa Lailey in 1892 before moving to Binfield where he worked as a fish monger.  Arthur, now a mechanical engineer is boarding with the Simpson family at 5 Southend Road, Basingstoke, Hampshire.  Anne had married Walter Robert Hatfield, a publican in 1895 and was now living in Turville Buckinghamshire. Unfortunately, Ann was to pass away in 1904.

George and Harriet continued to run The Bell Inn until 1907.

In 1911 George and Harriet can be found living at 49 Portlock Road in Maidenhead Berkshire.  George is now listed as a retired publican.  Both George and Harriet were to die a year later in 1912 and within eight months of each other.