Monument to Sarah Milbourne, Bray Parish Cemetery, Holyport Berkshire.
"In loving remembrance of
Sarah Milbourne
who entered into rest
Feb 16th 1911 aged 63 years."
Sarah Milbourne was born Sarah Morgan in 1848 in Norton St Philip, Somerset to William Morgan a labourer, and his wife Martha Meader.
Sarah first appears on the 1851 Census, aged 4, living with her parents and siblings at Ringwell, Somerset. In 1861 Sarah can be found living with her mother in Norton St Philip, Somerset. Sarah's father William is away from the family home and living in Leigh, Westbury Wiltshire.
On the 1871 census return Sarah is listed as a cook and domestic servant for the Rev Henry Burney and his family at Vicarage House in Norton St Philip, Somerset. In 1872 Sarah married coachman Edward Milbourne. By 1881 they had moved from somerset to Langley Berkshire with their three children, Edith Elizabeth, Martha, and William Edward. By 1891 the family had moved to Old Slade Farm in Iver, Buckinghamshire. 1901 saw another move for the family, they're now living and farming at Oakley Place Farm in Bray Berkshire. The family had now expanded to include Walter, Herbert, Annie, and Ethel. However, their daughter Martha was a patient at the Berkshire District Lunatic Asylum, in Cholsey, Berkshire. In 1901 Edward was charged with cruelty to a horse, the Reading Mercury reported on 11th May 1901:
"WINDSOR PETTY SESSIONS. Monday. (Before the Mayor, and A. T. Barber, and T. Dyson, Esqrs.)
Cruelty to Horse.
Edward Milbourne was summoned for cruelty to horse by working it whilst in an unfit condition. Inspector Watling, R.S.P.CA., proved seeing the defendant with the animal in Alma-road, and considered that it was illtreating the horse work in its present condition. The defendant was fined 5s."
Sadly, on July 15th 1902, Martha Milbourne passed away at the Berkshire District Lunatic Asylum, aged only 26 years old. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on July 23rd 1902:
"Death of Miss. Milbourne - The death occurred (after a long and painful illness), on Tuesday in last week, of Miss. Martha Milbourne, daughter of Mr. and Mr. Milbourne, of Oakley Place, Farm, Oakley Green, at the early age of 26. The funeral took place at Bray cemetery on Monday last, the officiating clergyman being the Rev. H. J. F. Tringham (curate of Bray). The mourners were the father and mother, brothers and sisters. The coffin, which was polished elm with brass furniture, bore the following inscription on a plate: 'Martha Milbourne, died July 15, 1902, aged 26 years.'
They were also to experience the loss of their eldest son William Edward at the age of 29 on 30th January 1910. The Windsor and Eton Express carried the following announcement on 2nd April 1910:
"Deaths -
Milbourne— On the 30th ult.. at Oakley Place Farm. near Windsor, William Edward. eldest son of Edward and Sarah Milbourne, age 29 years."
Sarah passed away on 16th February 1911 not long before the 1911 census was taken in April. The manner of her passing caused quite a stir in the village. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 22nd February 1911:
"Woman Found in Pond at Oakley Green.
A sensation was caused throughout the village of Oakley Green and district on Thursday. when it became known that the wife of Mr. Edward Milbourne, a farmer, of Oakley Place Farm, had been found dead in a pond about a hundred yards from the house. For some time Mrs. Milbourne had not been in the best of health, suffering from influenza, and she appeared to be distressed. She arose about six o'clock on Thursday morning and left the house, telling her daughter that she was going to an outhouse. At 6.50 a.m. she was found dead her son Herbert in the pond, in about five feet of water. Police-constable Huse was sent for and got the body out of the water.
The coroner's inquiry was conducted by Mr. W. Weedon, Coroner for East Berks. at Oaklev Place Farm, on Friday afternoon. Annie Elizabeth Milbourne, daughter of the deceased, said her mother was sixty-three years of age. She slept with her and early in the morning of the 15th inst. [sic] deceased woke up and asked for a lighted candle, which was given to her. She then said she was going to an anteroom and proceeded if to go there. She did not return and witness went downstairs and found that her mother was not where she said she was going. An alarm was raised. Witness called for her mother all over the place, but received no reply. She then told her Dick, who afterwards found deceased in a pond about a hundred yards away from the farm. deceased was quite sane and clear-headed, but she had been depressed lately. Witness's brother, died about twelve months ago and her sister died eight years ago.
Herbert Milbourne, son of the deceased, gave evidence of going in search of his mother and finding her in the pond at about 6.50 p.m. She was quite dead, and artificial respiration was not restored to as it was considered to be of no use. Where the body was found there were about three or four feet of water, but there was a lot of mud at the bottom. He saw his mother the night previous end she was the same usual. She had been somewhat depressed and had not been well since her son died last March.
A Juryman: :Do you not think your father's conduct had a great deal to do with the action?
Witness: I cannot tell you.
The Coroner: Is your father of intemperate habits?
Witness: No; his habits did not affect her.
The Jury returned a verdict of suicide during a fit of temporary insanity."
The Windsor and Eton Express reported in the funeral on the 25th February 1911:
"The funeral took place on Tuesday afternoon in Bray Cemetery, amid every sign of sorrow and esteem, as deceased was very highly respected in the neighbourhood. Much sympathy is felt for the family in their great bereavement, as it only some ten months since a son, Mr. W. Milbourne, died after a long and painful illness. The body was enclosed in a shell and placed in an outer coffin of polished elm with brass fittings. It bore the following inscription "Sarah Milbourne, died February 16th, 1911. Aged 63 years." The immediate mourners were Mr. E. Milbourne (husband), Misses C. and D. Milbourne (daughters), Messrs. W. and H. K. Milbourne (sons), Mr. and Mrs. J. King (son-in-law and daughter), Miss Hobbs (niece), and employees on the farm. Most of the inhabitants of Oakley Green were at the graveside. Deceased, who was of a kindly nature, was beloved by all.
The funeral arrangements were efficiently carried out by Mr. F. Sexton, Holyport."
Not long after the passing of Sarah, there was to be another sudden passing at Oakley Green Farm. Tom Harper Jones, a farm worker, collapsed and died. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on 15th March 1911:
"BRAY FARMER'S DEATH.
An Inquest was held by the Deputy-Coroner of Windsor (Mr. F. W. Randle Forth, at the King Edward VII. Hospital, on Monday evening, on the body of Tom Harper Jones, aged 49 years, a farmer, late of Oaklev Green Farm, and who belonged to a very old Gloucestershire family, who died suddenly on Friday evening last, at Oakley Green.
Mrs. Charlotte Jones, of Bray, identified the body as that of her husband, who had been living at Oakley Place Farm.
Herbert Milbourne, farmer, of Oakley Place Farm, said deceased came to his farm about a month ago, when he appeared to be in good health. He only complained of a cold. Deceased was a sober man. On Friday evening he was found lying underneath a hedge. groaning. He said "Leave me alone; l shall be all right presently" Witness and several men got deceased down to the gate and put him into a trap, in which he was driven to ding Edward VII. Hospital.
Mrs. Annie Knight. of Oakley Green, gave evidence of seeing deceased just after 5 p.m. coming from Oakley Place Farm. He went through a gate into a meadow and she saw him fall on to the bank. She went up to deceased and asked him if he was unwell. He replied "Go away and don't worry me: leave me alone." Witness went home to light a fire and returned, when she found the witness Milbourne with deceased. Frederick Sexton, builder of Holyport, said his attention was called to deceased in the meadow. Witness asked him what was the matter and he replied that he did not feel well. He complained of pains in the chest. Brandy was fetched for deceased, who was exhausted and groaning. Dr. Morris, house-surgeon at the hospital, said deceased was admitted to the Institution at about 7.30 p.m. on Friday. Witness examined him and found that he was dead. There was extensive kidney disease. and the heart was abnormal. Death was due to apoplexy. A verdict in accordance with the medical evidence was returned."
Recently widowed Edward can still be found at Oakley Place Farm along with his four younger children. During the Great War Sarah and Edward's youngest daughter Ethel Milbourne, a governess for the Mameretoff was made a prisoner of war whilst passing through Austria with her employer on the way to Russia. The Windsor and Eton Express reported on the 19th December 1914:
"ENGLISH LADY PRISONER Of AUSTRIA.
Miss Milbourne, daughter of Mr. E Milbourne, of Oakley Place Farm, Oakley Green, near Windsor, who when war was declared was on her way to the Caucasus, in the South of Russia, via Berlin and Warsaw, was made prisoner together with Madame Mameretoff (a Russian lady) and her daughter, to whom Miss Milbourne is governess. The family are in communication with the Foreign Office in order to obtain her release from a prison in Austria. Mrs. J. King, wife of Mr. J. King (a son of Mr. F. King, watchmaker, late of St. Leonard's-road, Windsor), who is now in Tonypandy, has received a letter from her sister, which is dated from the Carlton Hotel, Marienbad, 19th November, in which she says:
I am a war prisoner, and cannot leave here until the war is ended. Madame starts for Switzerland to-morrow, and is taking this letter to post from there, as I cannot send a letter direct to England. I shall be quite alone when they go away. I don't know a soul here and I am the only English girl in this town, although there are four Englishmen here as prisoners. They have been in prison, but are let out now, as I see them walking about sometimes. It is very cold here, with snow on the ground. It is snowing now. People tell me that it will be much colder than this, that the snow will be a yard high, and the people driving about in sledges. I am having a thick coat and skirt made. as I only brought summer things with me. Madam hopes that I shall be able to rejoin them in Switzerland. I hope it will he soon. but alas !I do not think so. I shall be glad to have a little news from you soon. Please put your letter in a blank envelope without name, address or stamp on it, and enclose it in another addressed to the address in Switzerland which you will find enclosed, and Madam will send it on to me ; but do not put anything about war or polities, as all letters arriving here are opened. This Christmas I shall not be able to pay you a visit. Please give my kind regards to all the South Walians."
Ethel was eventually released, the Windsor and Eton Expressed followed up the report on 30th January 1915:
"LOCAL LADY'S EXPERIENCES AS A PRISONER OF WAR.
Miss Milbourne, of Oakley Place Farm, near Windsor, who, as we stated some weeks back, was a prisoner of war in Austria, has been released through the good offices of the American Embassy in Austria, who were requested by the Foreign Office to do all they possibly could in the matter. Miss Milbourne is now in Geneva, Switzerland. The following letter has been received at Oakley Place Farm from Miss Milbourne:
" I arrived in Geneva late last Thursday evening after travelling 2 and a half days and sleeping two nights at hotels en route. As I told you in my last letter, I have been a war prisoner. They would not let me leave Austria because I was English, and they allowed no English people to leave, not even women, because they said England allowed I no Austrian women to leave there. I was quite a prisoner for a little while. A soldier came to see me and read out what I must do. I was not to leave my room before 6 o'clock in the morning, or go out after 8 o'clock at night. I must go to no theatre, or eat in any public place: and if I disobeyed I should at once be put in prison. There were three Englishmen in Marienbad, but shortly after I became acquainted with them they were sent away to prison. Goodness knows when they will be let free. I must say the people in Marienbad were very nice to me; I was the only English girl in the town, although there were many Russian men and women prisoners there, but they did not put them in prison only the English. The Mayor of Marienbad was very nice. I used to go and report myself to him every week, and he said he would do all he could to obtain permission for me to go away, which at last I received. I was very pleased, as it was so dull for me in Marienbad; I was quite alone and knew scarcely anyone. The weather was awfully cold, with much snow, but I bought a warm coat. 1 used to go for long walks every day. I also had two pupils for English, and I went for my German lesson every day to the Convent, so that I was fairly busy. Many wounded soldiers came to Marienbad, which made me realise there really was a war; otherwise it was very quiet there. I also visited three hospitals. I was so pleased to hear you were all quite well. Of course, during that long time I thought something dreadful had happened. I knew you would not get my letters, so did not attempt to write. I tried to telegraph, but the postal authorities said it was impossible to England. I have many souvenirs of the war postcards, maps, etc., and also German papers telling how bad the English are to the German prisoners. Madame's son is still a prisoner in Austria, as, of course, they let no men leave the country. " I am so pleased to be here to be able to read the French and English papers, as the only news I had of England was from the German papers; and it was not always true what they wrote. The American Consul was very kind. He wrote and offered to lend me money for my journey to Switzerland, but as I had money already with me it was not necessary to borrow from him. I should like to come home and see you all, but at present it is impossible; and also I think it is rather dangerous to travel just now."
Edward was to eventually join his wife and elder son at the age of 70 on 30th May 1916. The Windsor and Eton Express carried the following announcement on 3rd June 1916:
"Deaths
MILBOURNE.—On the 24th ult., at Oakley Place Farm, near Windsor, Edward Milbourne, aged 70 years."
After Edwards passing the Farming stock was sold at auction on 25th October 1916. The Windsor and Eton Expressed carried the following advertisement:
"LIVE AND DEAD PARKING STOCK. BUCKLAND and SONS
Having let the Farm, have received instructions from the Trustee of the late Mr. E. Milbourne to SELL by AUCTION, on the premises, on WEDNESDAY NEXT, 25th October, 1915, at I o'clock precisely,
THE WHOLE of the FARMING STOCK comprising:-4 Powerful Working Horses, 18 Dairy Cows and Heifers, 33 Head of Store Cattle, Shorthorn Bull, 30 Berkshire Pigs. The Farm Implements: Ploughs. Harrows. Scarifier, Horse Hoes, 3 Iron Rolls, Corn and Seed Drill, Market Waggons and Dung cart, Milk Float, Pony Carts, Mowing Machine, Hay Tedder, Hay Rake, Elevator by Pratt, Self Binder, Root Pulper, Cake Breaker, Chaff Cutter, Iron Horse Gear, Grindstone, Pig Troughs, Sewage Pump, Corn Bins, Ladders, Hurdles, Harness, and other effects. Four Ricks of Meadow Hay. A quantity of Household Furniture including a MASSIVE CARVED OAK WARDROBE. Catalogues may be obtained on the premises and of the Auctioneers. Windsor. Slough and 4. Bloomsbury-square, London."