Monument to Emmeline Ford, Frederick Thomas Ford, Iris Emmeline Ford Spooner and Michael Max Spooner. St James the Less Churchyard, Stubbings, Berkshire
"In Loving Memory of Emmeline. Beloved wife of Frederick Thomas Ford. Who passed on January 28th 1935. And of Frederick Thomas Ford. Who passed on January 26th 1936. And In Dearest Memory of their daughter Iris Emmeline Ford Spooner B. 1892 D. 1965. And of her son Michael Max. B. 1933 D. 1965."
Emmeline Ford was born Harriette Emmeline Shepherd on 24th August 1866 in Paddington London to James Shepherd, a stockbroker, and his wife Mary Alexa Williams. Emmeline was christened on 22nd September 1866 at Christ Church, Lancaster Gate, Westminster, London.
Emmeline first appears on the 1871 Census aged four years old, living with her parents, elder sister Mary and younger siblings Blanche, James, and Edward at 24 Queen's Gardens in Marylebone, London.
by 1881 the family had moved to 19 Lancaster Gate, Paddington, London, where the family can be found on the 1891 Census.
On 30th April 1891 Emmeline married Frederick Thomas Ford at Christ Church, Lancaster Gate.
Frederick Thomas Ford was born on 22nd February 1859 in Loudwater, Berkshire to Thomas Burch Ford, a blotting paper manufacturer, and his wife Elizabeth Slade. Frederick first appears on the 1861 Census aged two years old, living with his parents and elder sisters, Mary Ann, Fanny and Ada Helen in Loudwater, Berkshire.
In 1871 twelve-year-old Frederick is boarding at Richmond House School, 59, Castle Street, Reading, Berkshire. By 1881 the twenty-two-year-old Frederick had left education to help in his father's paper manufacturing business. On the 1881 Census Frederick can be found living with his parents, elder sisters Mary Ann and Ada, and younger sister Agnes at London Road in High Wycombe.
I am unable to locate Frederick on the 1891 Census, however Frederick travelled to both New York and Puerto Rico during his lifetime.
In 1892 Frederick and Emmeline celebrated the birth of their first child, a daughter Iris Emmeline Ford. Vera Marjorie Ford was born in 1893, followed by Frederick Victor Russell Ford in 1897, and finally Cynthia Alexa Ford in 1901.
By 1901 after the death of his father Thomas in 1892, Frederick was now the managing director of the blotting paper business. Frederick and his family have moved to Kimbers House in Bray, Berkshire. In 1906 Frederick Thomas was elected the Churchwarden of St Michael's church, Bray Berkshire
In 1911 Frederick and Emmeline are still living in Kimbers House in Braywick, Berkshire, along with Iris and Cynthia. I am unable to locate either Vera or Frederick Victor on the 1911 Census. Frederick Victor was to pass away on 1st July 1913 aged just 15-years-old.
Towards 1929 Frederick and Emmeline's health began to deteriorate, something they strived to improve with recuperative cruises and staying at spas. Sadly, Emmeline passed away on 28th January 1935 after a long illness.
Frederick was devastated by Emmeline's death and passed away nearly a year later on 26th January 1936 in a nursing home in London. On 29th January 1936, the Maidenhead Advertiser reported:
"Death Of Mr. F. T. Ford
It is with deep regret that we have to record the death which took place in a nursing home in London on Sunday of Mr. Frederick Thomas Ford, of Kimbers House, Bray, in his 77th year. His wife predeceased him in January, 1935. The deepest sympathy is extended to the three daughters who are left to mourn their loss.
The passing of Mr. Ford will occasion very sincere sorrow and regret by all in a wide area around Maidenhead and not least by the members of the Cox Green Horticultural Society, whose esteemed president he had been for many years. First elected on January 25th, 1912, he had held the office ever since, having been re-elected very year with increasing enthusiasm, the last occasion being the 7th inst. when he was elected for this year. From 1912 until 1936 the Society's show was held in Mr. Ford's grounds at Kimbers. Both he and his late wife had always been most generous supporters of the Society, and in earlier years they entertained a large party of friends and the committee of the Society on show the show day, but more recently, owing chiefly to less robust health and consequently frequent absence from Kimbers House at the time of the show, they had been reluctantly compelled to discontinue this. Their great kindness and generosity had endeared both the deceased and his late wife to all members of the Society, and the passing of their President will be deeply mourned and his memory will long be cherished.
The funeral takes place at Bray Church at 2.30 p.m. to-day (Wednesday) followed by internment in the grave at Stubbings churchyard where the deceased's wife is buried."
The funeral takes place at Bray Church at 2.30 p.m. to-day (Wednesday) followed by internment in the grave at Stubbings churchyard where the deceased's wife is buried."
In 1932 Iris Emmeline Ford married Frank Vivian Spooner in St Martin, London. They had their only child, a son Michael Max Ford Spooner in 1933, Sadly Michael battled with depression, this was made worse when in 1956 he was involved in a serious motorcycle accident which left him physically and mentally disabled. On 16th December 1953, the Aberdeen Evening Express reported:
"Motor Cyclist Seriously Injured
Michael Spooner, trainee at Stoneywood Works, who lodges at 6 Bon-Accord Crescent, Aberdeen. is still in serious condition in Aberdeen Royal Infirmary following an accident yesterday. Shortly after five o'clock he was found lying on top of his motor cycle on the road leading from the works Oldmeldrum Road, He was unconscious and suffered from head injuries. The police are investigating the cause the accident."
He eventually took his own life on 8th April 1965, leaving behind his wife of a few months, Barbara.
Iris took the death of her son hard and began drinking heavily, sadly Iris was to die from severe burns she received after falling asleep with a lit cigarette whilst under the influence of alcohol on 11th December 1965.