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Tuesday, 31 July 2012

Fanny Brewer of Woodlands, Burchetts Green, Berkshire



Monument to Fanny Brewer, St James the Less, Stubbings.

"Scared to the memory of Fanny.  Loved and loving wife of Frederick Brewer of Woodlands, Burchetts Green.  Who died Nov 6th 1894 aged 46 years.
And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes
He giveth his beloved sleep."

Fanny Brewer was born Fanny Hawkins in Southwark, Surrey 1848 to Charles, a  cabinet maker, and his wife Esther Turner. Fanny first appears on the 1851 Census aged 3, living with her parents, siblings, and maternal grandmother Esther Turner, at 2 Hatfield Place, Southwark, Surrey. 

1861 finds Fanny and her family living at The Elms, Wooburn, Buckinghamshire. 1871 and the family has moved again, this time to Barnes, Surrey, where they ate living at 1 Lime Villas, Cleveland Road. Visiting the family at the time of the census is a wine merchant called Frederick Brewer.


On 12th January 1876 Fanny married Frederick Brewer, and became saddled with a name that would make many of us titter today.  Fanny Brewer. In 1881 Fanny and her husband are living in Hampstead, London. Living with them is Fanny's younger sister Jessie Hawkins. By 1891 Fanny, Frederick, and Jessie had moved to "Woodlands" in Burchetts Green, Berkshire.

Fanny and Frederick had no (living) children despite their 18-year marriage.  Fanny passed away on 5th November 1894 aged just 46 years. The Maidenhead Advertiser reported on the funeral on Wenesday 21st November 1894 

"FUNERAL OF THE LATE MRS. BREWER. 

—The remains of the late Mrs. Fanny Brewer, who died at her residence, Woodlands, Burchett's Green, on the 6th inst., after a brief illness, were interred in the pretty little churchyard of Stubbings, on Nov. 10th. The coffin, which enclosed a leaden shell, was of polished oak, and was almost hidden by a rich profusion of wreaths and crosses, while the grave was lined with evergreens and autumnal flowers. The service was impressively performed by the Rev. G. S. Hodges, vicar. There was a large number of persons to witness the interment. The coffin bore the following inscription: "Fanny Brewer. died 6th Nov., 1894, Aged 46 years." The funeral arrangements were entrusted to Mr. J. C. Webber."

Sometime after Fanny's death, Frederick moved to Ruislip along with Fanny's sister Jessie. 


18 comments:

  1. surely, in that era, it would not have been proper for Jessie to remain with Frederick after her sister's death?

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    1. I'm not entirely sure. Being that Jessie lived with her sister and was unmarried I believe she may have had a disability of some sort. I did find a Jessie A Hawkins on the 1911 census, but the ages didn't match. Tehy're probably on the records some where but may have been transcribed incorrectly as I have found Fanny and Fred listed as Bremer on earlier records.

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  2. Fanny was 28 when she married, already considered a spinster. I hope she had some happiness in her marriage given she wasn't meant to grow old. Any idea what she died of?

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    1. So do I. In Victorian times spinster just meant and unmarried woman of any age.

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    2. Sorry, I have no idea what she died from, I would have to purchase her death certificate to find out. Probably TB

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  3. Great choice of B&W for the photo. I maxed the photo and really like the fact that the arms of the large cross are not rigidly straight. Lovely carvings, tool

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    1. Thank you, I think it's supposed to looklike a ristic wooden cross.

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  4. Devious brain at work: did Jessie have any children?

    Yes, 'fanny brewer' is an unfortunate combination, of which she may have been oblivious. The cross is reminiscent of the cross that Deb posted aBOUT THE sad orphan buried with others to save money ... or because there was no money.

    Your posts often have an ambience of ghosts inthe graveyard about them. Love it.

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    1. Thank you. Jessie remained unmarried and had no children from what I can find.

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  5. I agree with Julie in the ghostly ambiance of your cemetery photos.

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  6. interesting question hamilton asks!

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  7. It interesting to find out more about the people who are buried, sad when they cannot be found.

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    1. They're probably on the records some where, but you have to rely on the transcribers understanding the handwriting. A lot of people's names are usually spelt incorrectly

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  8. I just love your photos of the monuments. They are such moving works of art.

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    1. Thank you for visiting and commenting. I'm glad you like my pictures.

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  9. Nicola, I just found your blog through GeneaBloggers. What an interesting concept--I love discovering the stories behind these people we stumble upon in our research! Best wishes to you as you continue blogging!

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    1. Thank you for visiting and taking the time to visit. I guess it all started because I ran out of people I could research on my own family tree.

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